we have been together for almost 5 years. I never cheat him with another guy. i wish he love me............. i always talk with him,share my feeling. but he never share his feeling with except the thing must be let me know. if he has time, he would play computer, games and play PDA or hit the books, he never take a moment with me..he never cuddle too, even no a morning kiss or good night kiss, he kiss me only in sex. and he never request sex to me. it seems when i need it he give it. ..he is not randy, he said he respact me so when i want to do he does it. when he was play game in upstair play game, i try to with him share his interest. but he said i let you play he went down stair watch TV. when i go down stair , he went some where else, many time i share my feeling to him(not angry, try to resolve it), but he alway say nothing then said "stress, he said he in work the boss give him stress, when he went home i give him more stress" i just a simply who want somebody care about me.
2006-06-23 18:30:51 · 18 answers · asked by lizz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey he isn't full-filling your needs emotionally or physically..............Try to talk to him about your relationship and if he still doesn't care.... You need to seriously consider re-evaluating whether this guy is for you.. 5-years is a long time...maybe the relationship just went stale and you and he need to revive it, but...it seems he is uninterested. Seems like it might be time to GO.
Sorry to say that - but that's what is sounds like.....
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2006-06-23 18:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey five yrs is a long time to go through that. You obviously need more from that relationship then he can provide you. There are many other men that would love to spend time with you. As hard as it may be, it may just be time to let it go. I hope only the best for you, and know it won't be easy, but you need more. It's not that he's a bad person or something. Just that you guys aren't compatable with eachother. Good luck in all that you do
2006-06-24 01:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel. He might not even know that you are feeling so alone and neglected. Talk to him and be honest with him about how you are feeling. Tell him you would really like it if he would spend some time with you - whether it be going out or just watching tv together.
Sometimes guys don't understand women and they aren't even aware of whats going on. Let him know you need more affection and just ask him to make an effort to be more affectionate and talkative with you.
2006-06-24 01:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'll looking for a real relationship, with sharing and listening, this is not it. He's into his own world which don't include you except for relieving his stress on a s----- basis. This won't change any time soon if ever from what you've said bout him.
2006-06-24 01:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sometimes helps make things better for some people when the man & the woman understand what is needed from each other. Men need to have some time to rest & relax their bodies & their minds just as soon as they get home. Women need to talk to the man & be affectionately close to him just as soon as he walks thru the door.
2006-06-24 01:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey u could have said that in 3 sentences,and you will find dudes to care about you u sound real cute just learn to chill a little .OK.Don't give an aspirin a headache
2006-06-24 01:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is afraid to say what he feels and he is just not a very affectionate guy or he doesn't feel for you the way you feel for him. Maybe it is time for you two to separate for awhile. You're going to have to decide if being in a relationship with him is worth all the pain you are feeling now.
2006-06-24 01:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's either immature, or not interested in you. guys have a hard time breaking up with you cause they like routines. he trying not to get too attached to you which isn't a good sign. you'd be better off in the long run if you just ended it. see what the majority of people think about it, cause many of them are giving you honest answers. something aint right with him and he's going to drag you down.
2006-06-24 01:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would think of moving on. Your boyfriend sounds cold....don't you deserve better? You sound like a person that has a lot to give, don't waste it on someone that won't give in return. This is a dead end street for you. Sorry for your troubles.
2006-06-24 01:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with him 5yrs too long...you guys just aren't compatible --- few shared interests, bad communications and even worse sex....get out there and find a man who is expressive in his love for you.
2006-06-24 01:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋