need help getting my sex life with my girl back on line she has lose her sex drive for me
2006-06-23 17:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by mario_riley2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Romance her. Stay away from her hills and valley for a while. Cuddle her without obviously going for sex and focus on her WHOLE body. Head arms legs feet. Depending on the reason her drive is low, it may get things going agian. When you olny focus on the hills and valley it can make her feel like a two bit whore, which she is not. Make her whole body feel alive and that awakens the other areas on it's own. If there is unusally high strss in her life for some reason, that can put a damper on things for her to. nice candlelit dinner with a hot tub massage might do the trick or she might have to just catch up on sleep. either way, the trick is to figure out the REASON her drive is low. Fix the problem, and the sex drive goes back up to where it should be. Good luck
2006-06-23 18:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I hate to say this but run the other way! Don't look back and get yourself another girlfriend. When a woman loses interest, you can give her the stars and even that won't help. Think about it this way....if she's lost interest now, what makes you think that she won't lose it again after you're married and tied to her? That is if you were wanting to get married. Are you willing to live in a sexless marriage? Or plan on getting divorced? What if there are kids involved? Personally, I would move on.
2006-06-23 18:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by lillbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make a girl orgasm, finger the G spot furiously (or use a G spot toy), masturbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a powerful vibrator body massager on your clit at the same time). Maybe have an object in her a-nus (a turn on by women). You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed or any good aphrodisiac (a sexual libido enhancer, NOT Viagra or "size pills") . The G-spot is on the top inside of the vagina. Curve your fingers up when fing*ring. For a libido enhancer, try www.directvideoanddvd.com and go to the Toys and Supplements section. Maybe pop in a porno. Girls love when you rub the inside of her thigh(s) while you do this. [for the guys to do]
2006-06-23 18:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have been more specific about your situation. with my ex i lost my sex drive because i just plain wasn't interested in him anymore. i felt like throwing up at the thought of having sex with him. our relationship lasted 2 yrs. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 yrs and can't wait to have sex with him all the time. talk her and find out how she feels and why. ask her to be as honest as possible even if it hurts you. you still need to hear it. then you can find out how to start gettin your spark back...
2006-06-23 18:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by short_n_froey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. See what's on her mind. Maybe it is something that can be worked out. Or, maybe it is something beyond your control. See if she still feels the same for you. Sometimes people change. This may not be the case, but talk to her. I am sure this will let you know how to approach the love life situation.
2006-06-23 18:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by winchamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you have to be up front about what you did to cause her to get in that state of mind. Things like that don't just happen without a real good reason. Whatever it was, you'll have to make up for it before you can bring her to wanting you in a desirable way again.
2006-06-23 18:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you that you probably will not change the situation.
When girls are over a guy, usually it's done. They are different than guys. Guys are driven by sex and girls are not as much, so they don't need you as much as you think. So sorry charlie!
Rev. TomCat
2006-06-23 18:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Rev. TomCat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her loss of sex drive might be because she is bored sexually - so try to spice things up! Loss of libido can also be because of a hormonal imbalance - but in order to see if thats the case she would have to visit her doctor.
2006-06-23 18:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women can be just like men when it comes to sex...sometimes its a visual thing so with that said....do u still look the same? does she find u sexy? and not to sound harsh but it can also mean that shes having sex with someone else now and doesnt see any reason to have any more sex with you.
2006-06-23 18:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by socalsonja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible if I was girlfriend honey u wouldn't have to worry about that one. Hell i guess ut would have to be do what she likes in bed more often. if u tell more of why she lost drive for u. Then i can help suggest somethings.
2006-06-23 18:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋