I hate myself so much, I hate every hair, every cell, on my body... I hate looking in the morrior... had this ever happened to anyone else?
2006-06-23 17:21:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I used to be like that as a kid, I used to think I was ugly as hell, but those 'look into the mirror and tell yourself your pretty' crap works, eventually you start to believe it, and when YOU have more confidence people take notice, you'll feel much prettier I promise.
2006-06-23 17:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by angelbabe3009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is happening to me right now! :-( I cry & it doesn't help! I hate being the contributor in every single time! I hate working for things which eventually turn out to be against me! I hate wanting too many things even though I know I should be thankful for what I have! I hate it when I hate myself! I hate it when I need him so much! I hate it when I feel jealous of others! I hate it when I eat to occupy myself! I just hate everything right now!
2006-06-26 00:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by giggsmania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself this way: Do you have cancer? Are you in the hospital for the rest of your life? Do you have two arms and two legs?
Think about that. Be thankful for what you have and focus on that. Don't go out and do what everyone else does. Be yourself, in relationships, its not all about the looks. The looks can be a small portion of it. Dont change yourself for other people or to "fit in". In the end, its not worth it. It makes you look like a poser.
Basically what I am trying to say is, look at the things you DO like about yourself. Focus on those. Not at what you 'hate'
Hope I helped.
2006-06-23 17:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u know why u hate urself so much. try and make a list of things that u hate about urself and why u feel so strongly about it. then see if u can change any of it. usually if u look at the problem, u can fid a solution. dont like ur cloths, b uy new ones or take old ones and mix and match to create a new style. dont like ur hair, get a haircut or change the color.....
2006-06-23 19:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by dna_lih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know the opposite of love is not hate, but fear? fear of the unknown, fear of ridicule, fear of rejection? what r you afraid of, who made you afraid? who told you that you're not good enough?
i don't know you're age, but if you're a teen, i know that it's a difficult time and kids can be very cruel. but remember, people with their own fears and insecurities try to make themselves look better by putting others down. .. it's not about you, it's about them. pay no attention even though i know it's incredibly difficult.
but if you've been feeling like this for a long time, find someone you're comfortable with and talk to them....a teacher, a pastor, an aunt, a councellor. you're looking at yourself thru a cloudy mirror right now and you need to have someone tell you who they really see you to be. don't let your fear rule you.
2006-06-23 17:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by tweaksmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea... not to make it any worse.. but you might be pmsing. don't take it the wrong way. But when im pmsing... I get reall depressed, sometimes its so bad I feel like I just want to ruin my life. I know I would normally never ever want to do that nor would I ever even consider it. But girls can get crazy thoughts and crazy mood swings b/c of their cycle. So don't worry sweetheart...you'll feel fine in a few days. Enjoy life while you can!!
2006-06-23 17:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by algal1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time hating yourself! Do something to make yourself better. Like learning. Every success will show you just how great your potential is.
2006-06-23 17:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional help. It's not healthy to hate yourself, and very possibly, you have a hormone imbalance in your brain that causes these negative thoughts.
2006-06-23 17:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry i cant say that i hate my self that much bc im glad im alive!! i am really popular and pretty but the only reason i dont like myself is bc sometimes i look fat! ewww! my face is fab but my body id blab!!!.. but some clothes make me look a bit betterr :)
2006-06-23 17:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ei.. are you insecure with how you look or what?! If you dont feel good about yourself,, then there's no way for others to appreciate how you look! If I were you.. make yourself beautiful! and
feel gorgeous always and eventually.. your natural beauty will come out..
2006-06-23 20:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋