I've dated my boyfriend for 2 years. I don't think he loves me after what he's put me through..
So I'm just wondering..
2006-06-23 17:16:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No silly, you find someone who values you.
2006-06-23 17:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he/she doesn't love you back, then you must move on, you Willl be doing yourself a favor. My wife taught me the weirdest thing about women, that is, women seem to think that men wil some day, suddenly, wake up one morning and find out that their true love is them; and that is SO wrong. Example, women who date men who are with another women, and love the guy, why do women continue to see him, and BELIEVE, "he will one day realize that I'm the one he really loves, and we'll get married and have kids, and he'll dump that girl he's with now". DUMP THE GUY!!!!. Good luck
2006-06-24 00:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish that I could tell you what you want to hear, like that he will one day open his eyes and realize that you love him, and he will realize that he loves you above everyone. But I can't!!!!I have been in your shoes and I will tell you at some point he will decide to move on to someone else and then you will be left feeling empty and like you don't matter. I had a b/f that I gave 300% to, and no matter what I kept trying. Then one day I figured out that he was seeing someone else, it hurt me so bad I thought that I would just die, and to top if off do you know what he said when I confronted him, well I have told you all along I didn't know if I loved you like that or not. Hello they treating you like you are thier girlfriend in everyway....................but when something else comes along you no longer matter. **** LUCK
2006-06-24 00:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SORRY, BUT READ BACK WHAT YOU JUST WROTE AND TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT QUESTION. OKAY, LET ME TRY ANOTHER WAY. I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND QUESTIONS LIKE THIS. I MEAN THEY THE OBVIOUS ANSWER IS NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
HELL NO TO BE EXACT! GIRL YOU DON'T BEG! A WOMAN SHOULD NEVER BEG!!!!!!!!! NEVER BEG A MAN TO STAY WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DO YOU REALIZE HOW MANY MEN ARE OUT THERE? AND HOW MANY MEN WANT WHAT YOUR MAN IS TAKING FOR GRANTED! YES IT'S TRUE, BUT CAN'T SEE THIS CUZ YOU'RE BLINDED BY YOUR LOVE FOR YOU CURRENT BF.
YOU JUST NEED TO SNAP OUT OF IT. YOU ALSO NEED TO SHOW YOURSELF SOME RESPECT AND LOVE GIRL. LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU TRY TO BE LOVING SOME GUY. IF YOU LOVED YOURSELF AND RESPECTED YOURSELF, WELL YOU'D LET THIS GUY GO. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO HOLD ONTO SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU?
GIRL I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE, THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU WHO WILL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU. GIVE IT TIME. I THINK AFTER THIS RELATIONSHIP YOU'RE GONNA NEED SOME TIME TO HEAL YOUR HEART. HEAL IT AND TOUGHEN IT UP SOME. SO THAT IF YOU GET HURT AGAIN AND IT'S A DEFINITE RESPONSIBILITY IN THIS LIFE, YOU'LL BOUNCE BACK WITH BARELY A SCRATCH.
THAT'S WHAT I DID. MY HEART WAS DESTROYED AND SOMEONE CAME ALONG AND MENDED IT AND HELPED ME SEE THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION. AND I GREW STRONGER THAN I ORIGINALLY WAS AND NOW IF I GET HURT AND I HAVE GOTTEN HURT AFTER THAT, IT'S OKAY, I BOUNCE BACK. SEE I HAVE THE POWER GIRL. IF SOMEONE HURTS ME, IT'S CUZ I LET IT HAPPEN.
IF SOMEONE USES ME, I LET IT HAPPEN. I HAVE THE POWER TO STOP IT, NO ONE BUT ME. I CHOSE TO BE STRONG AND NOT LET ANYONE FU*CK WITH ME GIRL! YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, BE STRONG AND DON'T LET ANY GUY TREAT YOU BAD. REMEMBER YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. LOOK AROUND, IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE ANYMORE GIRL, I'VE SEEN SOME PEOPLE THAT WOULD CURL YOUR TOES AND THEY HAVE A PARTNER, THEY'RE HAPPY! SO WHY CAN'T WE BE HAPPY?
2006-06-24 00:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship of substance with you? You are worth more then that. If you are in a relationship with the wrong guy how will you find the right guy? Don't be so desperate for love that you cheat yourself out of true love and commitment.
Kathy
2006-06-24 00:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by c2god2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's time to move on...put your energy into finding out more about yourself!! Why stick around for two years and let anyone put you though anything? Love yourself first.
2006-06-24 00:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by grandmamickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? The only person you will be hurting is yourself. The pain will be much deeper if you keep trying to hang on to him. Let him go now. It will hurt like h*ll, but not what it will be if you keep trying to hang on. Save yourself the pain, and save yourself the dignity.
2006-06-24 00:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple hell no dump his/her a.s get the misery out of your life 1st ,the pain is going to be there but will pass cause after all is gone here comes the JOY!!!!!!!
2006-06-24 00:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he doesn't love you why waste your time on someone putting you through all this hell. There's someone out there who will love you as you love him.
2006-06-24 00:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. U gotta first value urself before others. You deserve much more and dont ever lower your expectations. Good Luck.
2006-06-24 00:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by zzu9_yx3Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him about if he loves me and if he shows it at first and then slowly starts going back to normal (like he doesnt love you) I'd dump him. he's not worth it...there's someone out there that will love you ... trust me! Good Luck! =)
2006-06-24 00:19:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋