Why does it seem like when you are trying to get pregnant and having a hard time, everyone else is getting pregnant so easy? And why does it seem like people who probably shouldnt be pregnant (like teenagers, drug users, and people who don't even want kids) are having babies but people who actually want them and can provide for them have such a hard time!!
2006-06-23 17:12:19 · 32 answers · asked by olivia_andrew69 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Just know that you are not alone. I have the same problem. it just doesn't seem fair, does it? I just have to keep reminding myself that it will happen when it is supposed to happen. Just don't give up. Someday it will happen.(hopefully for both of us). Good luck!!!!
2006-06-30 05:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by shelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel!! My husband & I have been trying for over a year now and we still haven't gotten pregnant yet!! We're trying for our first child!! And it seems like everyone I know is either pregnant or has just had a baby! And I even see strangers all the time that are pregnant and I just don't see why I can't get pregnant!!
I just wish I knew what all these pregnant mothers were drinking so I could get my hands on it too!! LOL
2006-06-23 20:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_gal04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying! The stress you cause for yourself and your partner are not good at all. 7-10 days after the beginning of your period are when you are the most fertile. Make sure he does not pleasure himself and save up his sperm until you are ready for sex...As far as everyone else getting pregnant when you are trying and cant, it just seems that way because you are in a slump right now. So just relax and have sex when it is most likely for you to become pregnant!! Good Luck...and remember...things happen 4 a reason
2006-06-23 17:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by michelle_marie26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny because I feel the same way. Drug users, unwanted pregnancy, and people who just can't take care of themselves. My grandmother told me that before I was born My life was already planned. She said accidents and mistake happen because we are suppose to learn from them and make better choices the next go around. Again The world works in mysterious ways and the baby making world is even more strange.
2006-07-07 10:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how I feel too!! I took my girlfriend for an abortion and it was the hardest thing because I want a baby so badly and there are all these girls there making light of the situation...:( Now she is pregnant again ( on the pill this time but still) Just keep trying- it will happen for us soon enough!
2006-07-06 14:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by dirtbike mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem that way, but it's called feeling sorry for yourself and it's has to stop.
You don't really know what it is like to be anyone else and to live their life and you probably aren't perfect either.
But, don't worry, all the other mothers out there are imperfect too.
Just be patient and have faith. You will become a mother when the time is right.
2006-07-04 00:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by baggyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no freaking idea but I think Im pregnant and dont want to have a child during this time of my life. Im only 24 and have a great career ahead of me.
Maybe the reason is because nothing is meant to be easy in life.
2006-06-25 06:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by maisie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL of my friends got pregnant. My step-sister got pregnant. And all of my husbands girl cousins just got pregnant or had babies. None of them were married. Me and my husband just got married last Oct. and started trying about 1 1/2 months ago. I know I will just go nuts if it takes forever.
Why am I doing things the right way and not pregnant? And everyone who does it "the wrong way" gets pregnant. I don't know.
2006-06-23 19:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everybody has 2 suffer sometimes in this crazy place they call earth. People who don't want kids suffer through pregnancy symptoms. People who want a baby suffer 2 get pregnant. Life just sucks sometimes, I guess. But stay strong & u wouldn't have 2 suffer anymore.
2006-07-06 08:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my first child it was a breeze. we weren't trying either. we were in the mindset that if it happens it happens if it doesn't then it doesn't. it took 3 trys and i was pregnant. she's 3 now. now my husband and i was trying for kid number 2 it is sucks because i can't seem to get pregnant now. we have been trying now for 6 months, everybody says don't try and it will happen. it's because a person stresses to much about it that it just doesn't happen. stop trying it will happen. i am in the same boat. that's why people keep telling me. for all those people who don't want kids those are ones getting pregnant because they don't want kids. see i guess they are right because all the other ones like you said can't get pregnant like you and me!!!! you just answered your own question. it's true!!!!! sucks doesn't it????
2006-06-23 17:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by stierney29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you. I wish I had the answers! Literally every single couple in my group of friends now has a baby. We're the only ones without one. I'm now trying to "not try". I have a great support group at http://www.babycenter.com, in trying to conceive after a loss. I also get some support at http://www.snugglepie.com, in the Real World Parenting forum. I hope your time comes soon! Good luck to you!
2006-06-23 18:39:47 · answer #11 · answered by KansasSpice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋