2006-06-23 17:02:34 · 4 answers · asked by KelBean 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay with him and be ruined, I guess. It is your choice.
2006-06-23 18:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart King 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T SAY LEAVE HIM? WOW YOU'RE LEAVING ME WITH ONLY ONE CHOICE THEN.
DEAL WITH IT. DON'T COMPLAIN, TRY TO HELP HIM, GET HIM COUNSELING, GET COUNSELING. TALK TO HIM.
YOU SAY IT'S RUINING YOU. SO WHY IF SOMETHING IS DESTROYING YOU, DO YOU STAY? DON'T YOU THINK THAT IS SELF DESTRUCTIVE? DO YOU HAVE SELF LOATHING ISSUES?
DON'T YOU KNOW THAT WHEN YOU'RE IN A DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIP YOU NEED TO LEAVE? DON'T YOU KNOW THAT WHEN YOU STAY IN A DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE NOT ONLY LETTING THAT PERSON RUIN YOU AND HURT YOU, BUT YOU ARE ALSO HURTING THOSE AROUND YOU WHO LOVE YOU.
DON'T YOU THINK IT HURTS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WHEN YOU HURT. I KNOW THAT WHEN I HURT IT AFFECTS MY LOVED ONES. YOU REALLY NEED TO START LOVING AND RESPECTING YOURSELF FIRST, IF YOU WANT YOUR MAN TO LOVE AND RESPECT YOU. YOU NEED TO BE STRONG, CUZ TWO WEAK LINKS IN A RELATIONSHIP ARE GOING NO WHERE REAL QUICK GIRL.
I DUNNO MAYBE YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN BE SAVED. I SURE DO HOPE YOU CAN WORK THINGS OUT BEFORE IT TOTALLY DESTROYS YOU. SOMETIMES LOVE JUST ISN'T ENOUGH TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND YOU REALLY NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT. WE CAN'T SAVE EVERYONE. HELL SOMETIMES WE CAN'T EVEN SAVE OURSELVES HOW WE GONNA SAVE SOMEONE ELSE FROM THEMSELVES?
NOT HAPPENING. LIKE I SAID LOVE ISN'T ALWAYS ENOUGH. IT'S A TOUGH DECISION TO MAKE, YOU NEED TO DECIDE IF THIS PERSON IS WORTH LOSING YOURSELF POSSIBLY FOREVER. I HAVE LOVED HARD BEFORE GIRL. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY I'VE BEEN HEAD OVER HEELS, BUT YOU NEED TO GIVE YOURSELF A REALITY CHECK. YOU CAN ONLY DEAL WITH SO MUCH, AND THEN IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON BEFORE YOU'RE LOST FOREVER.
ONE DAY YOU'RE GONNA LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND YOU'RE NOT GONNA RECOGNIZE WHO THE PERSON STARING AT YOU IS. I DON'T KNOW MAYBE YOU ALREADY HAVE THAT PROBLEM. I HOPE NOT. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR BF. HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.
2006-06-23 17:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did someone abandon him? Or did he abandon you?
2006-06-23 17:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try talk to him and seee what he had to say and decide on your own
2006-06-23 17:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by hopewaypinkywinkyrabbitgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋