What would you do if this was the girl you were dating?

Question

Asking this for my guy friend: A girl he was dating for about 6 months at the time got very intoxicated, it was him, and his friend and her and her friend. They were drink patron, she consumed about 5 shots in 60 minutes, she ended up puking her guts up in the bathroom at his house, before she damn near passed out, all she could remember was bein a dark bathroom and having some one kiss all over her, when the lights came on and the door was opened it was the guys friend and her. He thinks she knew what she was doing and she should have acted right and stopped. But she loves her man and swear that she was so intoxicated that she didn't realize what was going on, she thought it was him, the lights came on and her man was standing outside the bathroom. He seems to think that if she was so drunk, she would have been passed out on the floor when he came in the bathroom, or she instead of trying to explan she would have just laid down in bed and passed out....thoughts???

Answer 1

If she was intoxicated enough to be puking her guts up in the bathroom, she was intoxicated enough not to know who someone was in the dark - and also enough to think it was him especially as it was his bathroom and the senses do get fuzzy or shut down if you are that drunk. I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Also, I would make darn sure she - or I - was not that drunk again. Instead of being upset at her, what about the guy who was kissing all over her???? To me, he is the one who her boyfriend should be upset about. After all, he KNEW who he was kissing on!

Answer 2

If she was jpuking, she was pretty drunk and prolly didn't know what was going on. I don't think I'd be mad at her, the one he needs to be mad at is his friend. I mean what kind of a guy tries to start something with a girl that is that drunk anyway?

Answer 3

get her into AA and give her one more chance if he really loves her