Why don't men see things the way women do?Why don't they know the difference between right and wrong?

Question

When a man does something wrong he usually acts like your talking in a foreign language when you call him on it. They get what I call the "Jackass Face". Talk to me people.

Answer 1

Sounds like you are meeting all the wrong men. There are men out there who are good and honest and truthful.

Answer 2

Women are more sensitive and more emotional. They are more caring and nurturing. Women are more easily sidetracked. They are more observant of their surroundings. Women try to "fix" problems in other people, whether or not the person wants fixing.

Men have one-track minds. They don't look to the left or the right. They don't ask directions. They see something and they go whole-hog to accomplish it or get it. Men don't sense when someone is out of sorts. Men forge ahead and don't notice if they are hurting feelings or saying something they shouldn't.

A man plus a woman is like a two piece puzzle. Each alone is only half complete. The two together make a whole picture - - a whole unit. The attributes a woman has plus the attributes a man has work together. Even their physical attributes are different. The man has the strength and the woman has the softness. The strength can protect, build, lift, and do much more. The softness can nurture. A man and a woman together can do almost anything.

"It is widely recognized that there are differences between males and females, but finding that different regions of the brain are activated in men and women in response to the same task has large potential implications for a variety of different clinical situations," said Dr. Peter Silverstone, a psychiatrist and author of the study.

The study shows women having more white matter and men more gray matter related to intellectual skill.

"[…] human evolution has created two different types of brains designed for equally intelligent behavior,” said Richard Haier, professor of psychology and author of that study.

Generally, grey matter can be understood as the parts of the brain responsible for information processing; whereas white matter is responsible for information transmission.

It is a problem of evolution and nature. What can we do if we evolved differently? We should learn that we will be different and try to focus on fusion of the two. The differences cannot be wished away.

Answer 3

Everyone's idea of what's right and wrong or what's appropriate or inappropriate is very different. He amy not think that the little comment he made about the girl inthe short skirt was wrong, but we sure heard it and didn't like it. It's just that he knows he loves you and didn't think that it would hurt you. He assumes you know he doesn't want her, he's just looking, and he's aloud to look right. At least that's what he thinks.

Also, when you agree that he can go out with his buddies for a beer. He says he'll be home in an hour or two. In the mean time, at home, you've made dinner (which is now cold and not worth giving to the dog), done his laundry, cleaned the kitchen, given the kids a bath, and made sure that everything is ready for him so that all he has to do in the morning is throw on his clothes and go to work. It's now four hours later. You call him and he says, "I'll be home soon, we're almost done." Then the kids are asleep and you're trying not to fall asleep waiting when he finally walks in the door. He starts asking you to do things for him, not realizing what you've been doing while he's been out with his friends. You just give him the "eat s**t and die" look and go to bed.

You know, men just do these things. They don't realize how hard you work to keep them happy, so they do things that they don't realize bother you. Deoending on the things that your man does to irritate you, you just have to find your own ways of putting him in check before he gets used to walking on you and he doesn't even realize it. And that'a why they look at us like they have no clue what's wrong, because most of the time, they don't know. You have to tell him what's wrong.

But, then again, there are some of those men that know what the problem and act like that because they think they can get away with it. If your man is one of those, don't let him. Make sure he knows what he's done wrong, so that the next time, he has no excuse.

Answer 4

Why do you take your personal situation and make them sound like a general problem. Just because the men you associate with have that problem doesn't mean it's a general trait. Perhaps it's you. Do you forget he's human and harp on every mistake. Do you bring up every past mistake at your convenience. Do you insult him when he makes a mistake (the 'jackass face' comment is a hint)

Just your question says something. You associate right with being a woman, and wrong with being a men. I don't think a male has an iceberg's chance in hell with you. And I don't think a 'responsible male' (one that does admit he's wrong) would manage to retain his cajones in a relationship with you.

Heck, right now, you're thinking about how wrong I am just like a typical man, instead of listening to what I said. Better get some self help books on relationships.

Answer 5

It depends on the kind of men you are hanging around with. Not all men are like that. And not all women are completely innocent either. It has a lot to do with maturity. If a man is mature then he will own up to his responsibility. He will admit when he's wrong and will make an effort not to make the same mistake again. Perhaps you need to step outside of your comfort zone and meet some real men!

Answer 6

Right and wrong aren't determined by what you want him to do. That includes screwing other women. Unless there is a ring on his finger and yours, HE IS SINGLE. Act like a jackass and he can and will screw someone else without any guilt whatsoever. You can hassle him over it, but so what. He's just going to weigh in his mind if you are being too much of a pain in the *** to keep around.

Answer 7

Men and women do not think alike. Women are emotional, men are logicall. I know a lot of men are jerks, but i do not understand why a woman thinks a man should read her mind and comfort her all the time when she doesn't understand or care about his problems like how to pay the rent, put food on the table and keep the utilities on. Women expect men to stay with them when they are sick and miss work and then buy them gifts or go shopping to lift them out of a depression.

Answer 8

I'm going to love this one...
Men are simple...women are complex. For communication process to occur, one must learn the other language.
Men speak in simple terms. When men try to use this, women don't understand the simple terms. We must learn the complex language, which is complex to learn. We wish to learn the complex in the simplest way.
women try to speak in complex terms to the simple man. Hence, too many words are used to relay what information can be given in simple terms but not for the basic female. Women average 25,000 words for the common day, men 10,000. Men are done with their simple conversations when they get home from work, women are just getting started.
Men are physically mindset, women, emotional.
Men are sometines thinkers, women doers.

Besides, if a man is in the forest and you don't hear him, is he srtill wrong? I tell the other half there are two rules women make -
1. The woman is always right.
2. If the woman is wrong, see rule number one.

It is time for me to go back to the doghouse.

Answer 9

I think men may know the difference between right and wrong...they just dont care. Kinda like the guy who commented on how a guy is still single as long as there is no ring, and he can screw whoever...those are the walkin, talkin STD fools, that are gonna be "single" forever. I admit us women can be foolish at times too, but when your mind is where that dude's mind is...youre gonna have some serious issues one day.

Answer 10

Seems as though all the men who answered this question are judgmental. Not all women are the same, assholes. I guess he didn't think it mattered all that much. Have you noticed that every man seems to have strong opinions on women? We always seem to have high maintenance when half the time I'm wondering whether my boyfriend killed himself in the bathroom, or takes a day off when I work. Didn't use to be like that.

Answer 11

My husband hurt me and broke my trust. He was viewing pornograghy when I was in the other room. Instead of trying to spend time with me. I was so mad I left. When I came home he did not even say anything about it. I had to address him about the situation. He said saying sorry would not have been the right thing to do. Saying something would have. At least I would know you were at least upset with what you did. He was not thinking about how it would make me feel. I clean the house, I give him space when he gets home(he works two jobs, its the least I can do right), I bring his dinner to work for him. I never ask him for any help around the house. And I try to avoid situations that could hurt our marriage.