well the thing is my bf like pushed me a way from him and we have 4 kids together and he tell me that he dont care what i do or if i want to be with some one else but i dont and i think he is seeing some one else what do i do please help
2006-06-23 16:44:08 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl214 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When another person wants to date someone else, there is nothing you can do to stop them. Give him space and let him do what he wants with hsi life.
You have to be concerned with your 4 kids. Of course, you don't want to be with anyone else. Men and women see things differently.
You have to slowly realize that, as he moves farther away from you, emotionally, that he does NOT want you in his life. He told you he doesn't care what you do. That is a very strong indication for you to move on, and start over yourself.
Take some time to be with yourself and kids. Slowly, when, you are ready, you will go out and meet a nice guy. Don't be in a rush to do so, just because you want to make him jealous. That NEVER works.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 16:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having four kids is a very serious relationship. I dont know if you have had this issue already maybe,but this is something that you 2 really need to sit down and be serious about. If infact he is doing something wrong, tell him to be open about it and do the right choice, not only for you but for your kids too. They also get hurt when this is the situation. Try not to always throw it in his face but do your own investigation if he doenst want to tell you the thruth. Men dont get the point when we tell them that a woman has a special 6th sense, because its true. I hope everything goes well.
2006-06-23 23:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more help than you can get here. You can get marriage counseling (even if you're not married), go alone if your boyfriend won't go with you. You might also want to seek legal assistance to determine what your rights are and, should your bf suddenly leave, make sure you get financial support from him.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 23:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by wires 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you guys came to far for the petty games let's try 1more time to work it out before we end up enemies, in court broke and miserable. And tell him he has no choice breaking up is not an option he should of thought about that before he started your family.
2006-06-23 23:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man who will take care of you and your kids and sue the father for child support.
2006-06-23 23:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your children are much better off without him. I know it will be hard but you have to be strong and tell him to **** off
2006-06-23 23:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by jae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make his life more miserable than he is making yours untill he gives in.
2006-06-23 23:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the gajoigas
2006-06-23 23:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sue his as.s for child support
2006-06-23 23:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋