My friend really likes this girl and they once had a relationship but apparently he said somethings (I'm not sure what) and she wrote him something that said she no longer wants to talk to him or be friends anymore. He's really depressed and I'd like to help him out... but I secretly like him too but he when we were talking one time he made a list of girls he'd never go out with and I was one of them (even though it said no offense next to it)... so what should I do to help him out? His summer has REALLY blown so far.... so I'd like to help him. What should I do?
2006-06-23 16:13:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
None of these really answer my question. He's in love with her, She NEVER loved him... she only liked him a little bit and she never wanted a relationship to begin with. He still loves her, she hates him because of the things he said to her but I don't think she is right for him even though she is my friend. I want him to be happy but I don't know how to help him. I WANT to help him.
2006-06-23 16:35:38 · update #1
whatever it was he said to upset her, if she really cares for him she probably just needs a while to calm down and eventually she will talk. but most women know how to hold a grudge for a long time. but i don't think there is much that u can do at this point. or maybe, since you guys are in to writing letters, he could write her a letter apologizing for whatever he said and telling her how he feels lost without her. or maybe he can try the more bold approach and go talk to her face to face. it dosen't hurt to try, if he wants her then he should go and get her. good luck.
2006-06-23 16:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he really needs to move on. The girl obviously doesn't want anything to do with him so he needs to stop trying. As far as the 2 of you, if he says that you are one of the people that he wouldn't go out with then you should except that and look else where for a guy.
2006-06-23 23:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't save every lost puppy that comes to your door. Lots of boys are lost puppies, don't get sucked in! And always remember that you can't save people from themselves. He did what he did, he got this result on his own, you don't have to fix anything for anybody.
2006-06-23 23:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by warchikk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its kind of hard if you like him aswell, i mean dont you get jelous that he ruled you out? my solution take it if you want, is that he should try and be really sweet to her and trust me, a girl wont say no if a guy keeps trying to be sweet, and hes gotta look really attractive too, but he cant be playing games, also if you like him, maybe you should try and get him to forget her and like you more by being 100% confident with yourself, always looking your best and talk to him alot, but dont go up his ***.
2006-06-23 23:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by TeamMelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will heal all wounds the best thing to do is step aside for a while and as time goes by time will draw you closer to them again
2006-06-23 23:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
care 4 him tell him to not chase a girl if she doesnt want him and the more that u nurture him the more he will like u
2006-06-23 23:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't simply put..hard to accept yes.
Enjoy your summer, and stop trying to help someone who doesn't want your help. He'll make his way out of his funk on his own.
2006-06-23 23:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all things...just wait in time they will grow enough to be able to talk once more
2006-06-23 23:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to apoligise and if they dont like u stop tryin, cus u can make mo friends.
2006-06-24 21:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lilliann R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-06-23 23:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋