Im not sure, because I'm only thirteen. But I don't get all obsessed and dreamy when I see a cute guy like my friends do. I sometimes get wierd thoughts and wierd feelings about girls that I don't get about boys. I'm not sure if these feelings are of admiration or of love... I'm just so confused! Please help!
2006-06-23 16:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't have a problem w/ gay people, but being gay does scare me a little bit.
2006-06-23 16:16:33 · update #1
Also, I am afraid to talk to anyone. I want to, but I just cant bring myself to divgulge this. Its one of my biggest secrets.
2006-06-23 16:18:54 · update #2
Only you can decide if you're gay....All I can say is that IT IS OKAY TO BE GAY......DONT LET ANYONE EVER TELL YOU DIFFERENTLY....
2006-06-23 16:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to be confused. Your thirteen and you are finding out who are. Its normal. Sometimes girls go thru a stage of where they wanna be with another woman. Some act on it and never do it again because they realize its not for them, and some like it. And theres the some who dont act on it at all. But whatever you do use protection. Too many STD's nowadays
2006-06-23 23:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Poetic Jezebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may be a little confused. The only way to find out if you are gay is to kiss a girl and see how you feel after wards.
2006-06-23 23:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents or your school counselor about these feelings. If you are gay then you are and you should not worry about it. It's okay to be you however you are. Remember, your human like veryone else on this earth. Everyone is different and special in their own way. Try not to worry-you are thirteen and you will have plenty of time to figure it out.
2006-06-23 23:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thirteen, trust me you are so young that right now you don't know who you are. Actually it takes a long time to figure out who you really are, so i wouldn't worry about it. Enjoy your time as a teenager because soon it will be all behind you. Worry about what sexual orientation you are later, or about boys or girls. Get good grades, study hard, go to college, and have fun. Just don't do anything stupid. Have Fun!!! and don't worry it will be alright.
2006-06-23 23:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and will eventually decide what you want in life.. You have many years to decide which path you want to take. Talk to a older well trusted friend, such as a Aunt, sister, etc. Someone that was your age once. I am sure you aren't going through anything most girls don't go through at one point in their lives...
2006-06-23 23:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Brian T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still pretty young. I'm thinking you'll figure it out by the time you're 16. You need to finish puberty first. That is when your attraction will be the strongest.
2006-06-23 23:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not gay. You just don't like boys yet. Give yourself sometime to mature.
2006-06-27 13:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty Katt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All your going to do is hurt yourself in the end,tell yourself the truth,if you like girls find a girl who likes you,have fun and grow old telling and doing what you truly feel.If you like both,find both and live happy.don't let others dictate what you do with your life.
2006-06-23 23:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gay! i didnt like boys when i was 13! give it time and dont start thinking aobut being gay because no one is gay they just think they are born with it when they arent!
2006-06-23 23:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really young and your body is going through a lot of changes. Time will tell don't worry.
2006-06-23 23:19:19 · answer #11 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋