how to forget....
2006-06-23 16:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by clown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't really know what your asking, but I think your asking how to become an enemie to someone, and forget about whatever happened between the two of you in the past, and how to forget everything that happened?
I'm thinking that, so with the intent of the question being that, I'll answer like this:
Its hard to forget somoene. It really is. As stupid and selfish, and extreemly childish it is, everyone somewhat holds a grudge agianst someone they've had a negative past with, unless the two people can fix what has happened, wich usualy is not the case.
Forgetting isn't the answer- but forgiving. You have to forgive yourself for getting yourself in whatever situation it was, and you have to forgive the person from whatever they've done because its not worth keeping it in the back of your mind to haunt you 24-7. Sure it seems like you haven't done anything, and it was totaly the other perosns fault, but look in the other persons shoes and pretend it was you, and you did everything that that person had did, and to try to relate to it. I know it sounds stupid, but you shouldn't have to dwell on it. What happened happened, and nothing can change it. But you can make what will happen to you in the future better for yourself by trying to forget it, and this experience can teach you soo much. You just have to look ahead and try to not let it bother you. I know its hard, good luck.
2006-06-23 16:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not exactly sure what you mean.
"how do you make an enemy?" or how to get them to forget you have become their enemy?
The only way to forget is first to forgive. If this person has offended you, you need to forgive or you will have that much more misery in your life.
As for them forgiving you, you need to go and talk to them one on one in private if that is possible, maybe they need time.
Resolve the offense and make repairation, if possible.
If this is left unresolved by no means on either of your parts then both of you suffer.
2006-06-23 16:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by duhanlorian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than to forget or to become enemies avoid them. I would suggest you...... you maintain your character and be away from them. In all situations smile at them and deliberately avoid them in a pleasing way so that your loved ones will know , there is nothing from your end. I think this may help you
2006-06-23 16:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by amu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't become enemies with anyone if you don't have to. We need all sorts of friendships. Life acn be really lonely sometimes. If freindship is real, don't mess it up, whatever kind it is.
2006-06-23 16:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things that we all hate most, u will easily create lots of enemies.
2006-06-23 16:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mono 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything that the person hates
or if u don't kno the person, b an ******
giving a wedgie will work for either or
2006-06-23 16:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to 'try to be artsy', but just look like an online weener
2006-06-23 16:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up on the electric shock a little.
2006-06-23 16:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Nagitar™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going with the first guy that answered this.... this question is so vague i have no idea what you are talking about
2006-06-23 16:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit them in the face w/ a salmon. :D
2006-06-23 16:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋