oh yeah my bf is 22 but he is not a sicko and doesnt want me to rush into it or regret it.
2006-06-23 16:09:07 · 8 answers · asked by ~~SUGAR*LIPS~~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Waiting won't make the experience any less enjoyable. Not rushing into something is better than having regrets afterward. Keeping your options open is a good thing! And your boyfriend could get into serious trouble. One year isn't that long!
2006-06-23 16:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely something wrong with a 22 year old 'man' in a relationship with a 15 year old girl. The balance of power is way out of whack. Beware, babygrrl, no matter how sweet he appears.
And ohhhhh, sugar. Count on your first time being the worst (I promise it gets better ... practice does make perfect - or at least simultaneous). There are no 22 year olds who are expert enough lovers to make it hearts and arrows and flowers and violins for you, or even Vivid Video for that matter. Take your time. Wait until you care so deeply about someone, and are so comfortable with them, that all you care about is their pleasure and -- important-- expect nothing in return. At least at first. That's not to say that you SHOULDN'T get anything in return (generous lovers are made, not born), but don't expect it.
It's not a race. Better that you wait and have a wonderful first time, than rush into it and spend years schlepping around the emotional baggage which could result.
2006-06-23 16:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and once again no. If he is 21 and you are just 15 he has a problem and you should make sure you know all about yourself.
Sex is not something to play around with, there is to many diseases and you have plenty of time.
Waiting until you are able to handle what comes from sex, there is plenty of time for it with a guy your own age and not at 16 either
2006-06-23 16:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by ohioc2ea2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until your older like 18. Make sure you really care and love this person and he feels the same about you before you do have sex.
2006-06-24 03:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of this is considerate and super of you desirous to attend to have intercourse and from what you have mentioned it sounds somewhat werid, her coming domicile devoid of her bra? the only element you're able to do is sit down and talk over along with her and permit her understand how your feeling. It would desire to be complicated for the the two considered one of you, yet am i able to easily say, you have been with eachother for 3 years and you mentioned "I dont choose this to be a realtionship the place its in keeping with, how stable this is interior the mattress room" do you heavily think of that your relationship would be in keeping with that? you have been mutually somewhat a mutually as devoid of having intercourse and your relationsip has been stable up till this component. you will desire to ask her why she is behaving like this, it would desire to be because of the intercourse project or some thing else. purely she has the respond for you. if it rather is the intercourse project although, you will would desire to tell her the variety you experience approximately it yet then you rather would desire to think of roughly it from her point of view. according to threat she thinks which you dont discover her perfect and that your pushing her away whilst she needs to get intimate. stable success.
2016-12-13 18:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is in trouble for that same reason. I think you should wait. I don't think your bf wants to end up like my friend
2006-06-23 16:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should wait until you are of legal age.Even if you are ready now if you wait til you are legal it is best so your BF doesn't get into trouble.
2006-06-23 16:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, think about this, wat would a 22 year old want with a 15 year old?
2006-06-23 16:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋