2006-06-23 16:08:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no it isn't ok...would it b ok if u did??ask him to think bout it that way
2006-06-23 16:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he doesn't watch it constantly or try to make you somehow emulate or live up to the porn he watches, I really wouldn't say watching porn is something you should try to break your boyfriend of. Look at it this way: guys think about sex every six seconds. If he had his way, he would be all up on you every six seconds. Porn gives you a chance to maybe be able to get him to do something like go out to dinner or go to the zoo before he wants you to fool around with him again. Take the breaks where you can find them, honey.
2006-06-23 23:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is an adult, he can do anything he wants. The main thing here is that you don't like it. If you don't like that he watches porn...if it makes you feel bad about yourself, or hurts you, you need to talk to him right away and get it out in the open. Go to him at a time when he's not watching and tell him that it hurts you. If he really loves you, he will give it up. Afterall, some girl on a tv screen can never compare to the real thing at home.
2006-06-23 23:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by sosassy70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is taking care of your heart and needs, nice n' sweet, then let him watch a little porn. He may pick up some tips to spice up your life. However, if he is not taking care of your heart and needs, then withhold the sex until he stops. Tell him when he's taking care of you, then he can watch again.
The only other option you have, n n' s, is to leave him. If his watching porn bothers you too much, then it will drive a wedge between the two of you, and your relationship has no chance of success.
2006-06-23 23:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is something some (not most) guys really like to watch. If you don't like it you shouldn't watch it with him, that's his thing. If he spends a lot of time watching porn or if he can only be intimate with you if he watches it then you need to talk to him because he has a problem.
2006-06-23 23:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's not addicted, he's not trying to force you to watch it and he's not into things like kiddie porn, then give him a break. Guys are visually turned on, a lot more so than girls and porn is one way to help them masturbate, which they do a lot by the way!
2006-06-23 23:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's what you can do.......grow up and get some self worth and self confidence. if you have high self respect and confidence, what he does won't matter to you unless it's somehow dangerous. are you affraid that his watching other 'sexy' girls will somehow take something away from you? a high self-esteem person is not affraid of or offended by any of that.
I have a friend who's wife loves it that he goes to porn movies and then brings his hightened passions home to her for some sensational sex! she's made the husband's porn an asset and benefit to both of them instead of childishly-fearfully over-reacting to him. to me, that's wisdom and securety on the wife's part.
2006-06-24 00:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think is a very good feeling for you. It happens to me! What I do if he wants to see a movie of "those" I prepare myself a glass of wine and drink it very fast, so I get a little... u know on the mood. After a while you will feel better and you wouldn't even notice. And you will learn some new things too!!!
2006-06-23 23:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetness there is one way u can get back on him ,My girl did it 2 me once she went out and rented a porn of Hot Dudes and she put them on in front of me.Well I don't have 2 tell u what happened next Right
2006-06-23 23:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch it with him, and then you too should start having sex. That's hot. My girlfriend never watched porn before me and we put it on one day and she loved watching it and when we had sex, she had 3 orgasms right in a row. it was insane.
2006-06-23 23:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by blackknightpictures 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a break, men are turned on by and interested in different things than us, just be glad if he's only watching porn! you don't have to watch it, eh?
2006-06-23 23:12:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋