Most girls will surely freak out if a serial killer tells her that she is his fantasy. Do girls like knowing that she is her boyfriend's sexual fantasy? Would girls feel delighted to kow that her friend fantasizes her?
Please don't limit your answers to yes or no.
2006-06-23 15:50:52 · 30 answers · asked by Spyke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was my BOYFRIEND telling me that I was his sexual fantasy, hell yes! That would be awesome. Something tells me I'm not much of a "fantasy" in anyones eyes, but if my man were to actually TELL me that, I would be immensly flattered.
If it was a guy friend of mine... I would feel a bit awkward, simply because it's my FRIEND. Unless he's just hoping for sex, it's not really appropriate or valid to say to a girl that's just a friend. But if you're hoping for that golden pick-up line, good luck.
Oh, and as for serial killers... I really hope you're not a serial killer about to tell a woman she's your fantasy... that's just creepy! :)
2006-06-23 15:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
People do have sexual fantasies, but I wouldn't take it as a compliment, because fantasies come and go, and have nothing to do with loyalty, commitment, kindness, caring...all the things that involve loving someone. And I don't get the part about the serial killer thing...what has that got to do with anything?
2006-06-23 16:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would love it! Every girl wants to be needed, and wanted. Knowing that a guy fantasizes about her makes her feel sexy, beautiful, and desirable. Girls don't get all dressed up and put make up on for no reason! :-) We want and need the positive attention. Knowing that her guy fantasizes about her assures her of his love and maybe even commitment. To be some ones sexual fantasy is more than being just a girlfriend, it means she is wanted.
Hope this answers your question! :-)
2006-06-23 15:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Megan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a serial killer yes becuase you dont know him and hello hes a serial killer. your boyfriend it depends on the type of relationship you have with him, to me i would be flattered. by a friend i wouldnt be delighted if i didnt like him and the fact that im attached does bother me.
2006-06-23 15:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is my boyfriend or someone who's not a psychopath, of course I'd be flattered.
I'm sure that girls like that their boyfriends are sexually attracted to them. If not...why are they even with the guy?
I'd secretly enjoy it that my friend fantasizes about me but I wouldn't admit it because we're just friends and I wouldn't want him to think I'm encouraging it.
2006-06-23 15:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, when i was working at a moneymart, i had this hot rocker guy flirting with me all the time, well we hung out one night, and he told me that he had been having these wild sexual dreams about me....i was so flattered because i was having the same about him, we were always casual, but even to this day he is the one man that i could go see and be totally turned on by......damn now i want to call him....lol
The sex was the most amazing that i have ever had in all my 35 years
2006-06-23 15:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldl ike that my boyfirend's only fantasy is with me and no one else. But if it was friend or serial killer like you said would say that I would be weirded out and freaked. My bf , fine I guess. A friend or someone else, no way. I would be insulted.
2006-06-23 15:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you to your face, he's trying to make it happen. That might be really creepy or really great depending on who it is.
If you find out second hand, be flattered. But if you're not into him, try not to lead him on.
2015-01-19 06:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, well...you are someone's sexual fantasy? My advice is as follows:enjoy it...be careful though if it gets to the point where the guy is obsessed.
2006-06-23 15:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say most people in general enjoy knowing they are desired by others. Thats why our society is so obsessed with image - everyone wants to be desired by everyone else. I think it's important that a girl knows she is the object of her partner's desire - same as a guy should be the object of his girl's desire.
2006-06-23 15:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋