I am wondering this. All of my friends that I have don't take me seriously and make fun of me, I have only had one girlfriend and she was a nerd and yet she dumped me the next day because I wasn't cool enough, everyone hates me, and I have had only 3 good friends in the world... but I always loose touch with them... I have really not thought of it, but I think I don't have a good life. Help?
2006-06-23 15:49:04 · 17 answers · asked by ThatFreakinRandy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
FYI- im not a stupid little kid or w/e... im a frikin senior in HS...
2006-06-23 16:00:12 · update #1
Maybe if you take off those rose-colored glasses, you'll be able to see things a little more clearly.
Basic needs met... yes? After that, it is all about perspective...
2006-06-23 15:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by amalamadingdong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life doesn't suck. Okay? You got that through your thick numb-skulled head? You make it horrible... yes, you do and you have the power to make it the best life ever
Okay, so you are a nerd just like 40 other million kids in america
so CHANGE
dress like a prep
read magazines about it, how to dress, how to act, and to be a MAN!!!!
So you are going to college next year!
MAKE A NEW LIFE!
this is a new beginning for you, another chance to make a difference
Girls in college like smart guys if you didn't know
Study a lot
change your look and style
Try excercising, girls also like masculinity
so if you are strong and smart, DOUBLE PLUS
and don't think you are strong already
if people call you loser and u dated a nerd girl which dumped you saying that u arn't cool enough, u must look like a human PEZ dispenser
EAT TONS OF STEAK OVER THE SUMMER, let urself pucker up a bit, get a belly!!!
Then excercise your butt off untill u have no butt
Buy stuff from American Eagle, Hollister, Abercrombie & Fitch, or even Gap. Dress in polos, khakis, cool jeans or something!
make yourself look decent.
watch how your football team dresses. They look Preppy
so look how they do
college people won't know u were the biggest nerd in highschool
they will hopefully know you as the cool strong smart prep
SO WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
ARE YOU JUST SITTING HERE READING WHAT I HAVE TO SAY???
GET YOUR LAZY BUTT OFF OF YOUR STUPID COMPUTER CHAIR AND START EXCERCISING!!!!
2006-06-24 01:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Eng 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crap happens, bottom line.
Everyone has thought like you at one point or another. Friends make fun of each other all the time. Me and some of my best friends make fun of each other all the time. If some of my closet friends didn't give me crap I'd think they were mad at me. If you have had only three close friends you're ahead of everyone else.
As far as the women go, don't sweat it. Be confident and act bold. Be nice, don't lie, always treat them right. Take a second and think if you've really made an effort to talk to girls. A simple "hi, My name is Joe I thought you were cute," goes far. Honesty dude, screw the pickup lines. Things will happen in time.You think things suck, but it's not so bad.
2006-06-23 23:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by T C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young, listen if your are as young as I think you are friends in school usually don't stay with you in the long haul they are out to impress others and are concerned about what everyone is thinking about them, maybe the girl dumped you because of your lack of self confidence, show her you are comfortable in your own skin and your not worried about what others think of you. Be strong and be a leader if you exert a positive attitude that will attract a lot of attention from girls and from guys that you want as friends your life doesn't suck. there are a lot worse things trust me hold your head up and don't worry what others think.....take care...
2006-06-23 23:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by angel girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life seems fine to me. But then again I was a navy brat whose father cheated on her mother with the 16 year old babysitter, went to jail for it, and did it again. Then he moved us across the country before he was dishonorably discharged, left my mother for another woman, forced me to move in with him, and abused me for 4 years, physically, mentally, and sexually.
I know your life can seem hard at times, but consider those who're worse off. When I get into a depressed mood, I always think that, unfortunately, someone has it worse than me. Someone may be starving to death on top of a situation like mine, or something even worse. One girlfriend who didn't like you enough isn't bad. And people come and go, trust me. True friends will stick. And always remember: THIS TOO WILL PASS.
2006-06-23 22:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ember 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just need to meet new ppl - it isnt the quantity but the quality of ur friends and maybe ur gf was an idiot. how old are u? different phases of our lives can suck and u dont know whats coming around the corner. could be the girl of ur dreams or the job uve always wanted.. dont look at others to see if u suck just concentrate on what u want in ur life then go after it :)
2006-06-23 22:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by ^_§|èëp¡ñg_^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you wake up everyday, write down five things you are grateful for. They can be trivial or meaningful. Then every time something suckish happens, go back to one of those things.
People who live their lives in a state of victim-hood attract more of the same. Live your life from a place of powerfulness (I am capable, I am a good person) and you will attract what you want.
2006-06-23 22:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by goodjuju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friends are morons doesn't mean your life sucks. Find new friends. Real friends wouldn't make fun of you. There's more to life than friends. Friends are good but you can always make new ones.
2006-06-23 22:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by zenkitty27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life is what you make of it,perhaps at this stage you haven't found the right kinds of friends but,saying your life sucks makes it a little more concrete,be careful of what you say and think,know that the people that you have come into contact with are just not your kind of people.get out meet people,you,ll see that your life doesn't suck as much as you thought.
2006-06-23 22:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life will get better, don't worry. Try not to lose touch with those friends, and get back in touch with the good friends you had before.
2006-06-23 22:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋