Okay so it's more like my problem.
My hasband nad I share a great sex life but...
He can go for hours and I just haven't got that kind of stamina. Now his longevity is not really a concern, but I've seen so many things about the problems associated with prostrate problems I was wonderinf if this could be one of them.
He's a bit overweight but relitivly healthy. He doesn't see a doctor unless he has an accute problem and try to convince a guy to see a doc about too much staying power...
Can anyone help with this?
Is my husband just gifted or could there be a medical issue?
2006-06-23 15:12:55 · 14 answers · asked by Alpha Wolf 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
There may be a medical problem and it's always best to see the doctor as early as possible. But in general, as men age it takes them longer to ejaculate and they don't recover as quickly.
To shorten the process, you might want to try finishing him with a hand job. Use a lubricant and he shouldn't complain.
2006-06-23 15:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I'm not a doc, but I thought that prostate and other health problems like high blood pressure had the opposite affect. I don't know what to say . . . it's better than the alternative; a happy medium would be nice. Is this something new or this is just him. You haven't seen any little blue pills around, have you.
2006-06-23 22:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long all the time could be trying, Have you talked to him about why it takes him so long, maybe he has a strong mind and can hold him self back. He may think that is what you want, some times alot of sex will make that happen to a man. Dont really know.
2006-06-23 22:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by ms.mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gifted?! Ha! Seriously, what woman likes to be ****** for hours straight?? Damn Man! You have to make her come in 20, 30 tops, then he has to come shortly after that. Short, Powerful, hot sex is the way to go... not some monotonous 3 hour saga of pumping and slight moaning. Let me tell you something dolly, I am 22, and have a FABULOUS sex life, it rules...
2006-06-23 22:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he always been this way? If this is a more recent occurrence, there could be a medical reason.
The only thing I can suggest is that you vary your sexual activity, like giving oral to each other (only one has to work at a time), different positions, using your hands in provocative ways, etc.
The bottom line, though, is that if he cares about your feelings, he will be considerate of your needs.
2006-06-23 22:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is a medical issue. It might be that he is gifted an if he is i would try some for play in my sex life an see how that works
2006-06-23 22:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by na_girl_mg1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no medical problem, most likely. He can just go for a long time. You need to talk to him and tell him you dont want to do it for hours because it is uncomfortable for you.
2006-06-23 22:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never seeing a woman complain that her man lasts too long!!!
hahaa
maybe hes just not doing it the way he really wants to, try different things/techniques!!
2006-06-23 22:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Gui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the problem, I may have a medical issue too. You and my girlfriend should have a conversation.
2006-06-23 22:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by B-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gifted. Keep taking the "presents".
2006-06-23 22:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Oriental Delight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋