2006-06-23 14:51:30 · 23 answers · asked by Davian 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
baby will come and you will help change diapers and feed the baby and help the mom out as much as possible and be there when ever either one needs you....Why do you have any doubt. We're never given any more than we can handle. You'll be fine..every parent makes mistakes its your turn now and you learn from them and be the best dad you can be.!
2006-06-23 14:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Peaches 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the mother of two buttiful children at twenty years old my first child was born when I was sixteen and I was scared on if I would do a good job at being a mother, but as soon as that baby comes into this world your perspective on things will change. My life revolves around my kids. I dont regret it one bit. Once you have that baby you will know what to do. Just be there for the child it will be very happy that he/she has a father that loves them very much. Money cant buy love.
ALWAYS REMEBER IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO BE A FATHER
BUT ANY MAN CAN BECOME A DAD.
I hope i helped you out some and promise me you will be there for that child no matter what EVERYONE needs a father.
2006-06-23 15:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by little_devil_rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a big step... but don't worry. People do it all the time.. the biggest fears new fathers have about their babys is that they aren't up to being a good dad. Rather they are young unmarried or older and married for twenty years. Stay with your girl and support her. You guys made this baby together, no one should face it alone. Support her and the baby and i'm sure you will be a great dad. Fatherhood, like motherhood, comes naturally but that doesnt mean you don't need to step up and take some responsibilty. Best of Luck to you....
2006-06-23 14:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by manderstwin1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child is a blessing no matter what the circumstance. Being a father is an amazing gift, and it will bring you more joy then you ever thought possible. Whether a boy or a girl you will play a vital role in their development...so stand up, and strive to be a great father. You are in-store for an exciting new future, so smile.
2006-06-23 16:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by jenj23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to be a dead and your girlfriend has the same feelings that she wants to keep the child then i think you should both sit down, have a long chat, decide if it is a good idea for you and her.
You must remember to consider the cost of raising a child and how having a child could affect you in the future, it is hard to be more specific without knowing you personally or your situation.
2006-06-23 14:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there's no reason to be scared of becoming a dad....I've had 3 children and the guys never stuck around, but my youngests father had the same problem where he was scared. You just have to take it one day at a time, and trust that everything happens for a reason. You'll be just fine : )
2006-06-23 14:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what age you are?...does she want to be a mom or just keep the baby, does she want to give it up for adoption?...answer those as well, it really does depend on what she wants to do as well, it cant be decided on just your thoughts, if she wants to be a mother too, then is there parents interfering?..you guys should go ahead with it if your not too young and are willing to accept the responsibilities and roles of parents, well what could happen?..you'd be a dad, nothing as a worst scenerio could happen if you both want the child, and are really in a good relationship to want to be together, just because she's pregnant doesnt mean you have to get married, but most people do that..
2006-06-23 14:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by allison d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you're scared but realise you're gonna have deal with this whether you want to or not. Even though there will definitely be hard times, stick by your girlfriend and support her through thick and thin. when things look bad try to think of all the joy you will have watching your child grow.
2006-06-23 15:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by crazyrandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared? If the child is born, you will have become what you want to. You will have a lot of responsibilities, and you'll have to marry her. I wish I was in your position. But I don't have a local girl friend. Enjoy your new duty!
2006-06-23 14:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already got her pregnant I think it's time to stop being scared and start acting like a man.
2006-06-23 14:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by qamberq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋