I have a good male friend that I have known for about a year and a
half. Recently he asked me to go on a cruise to the bahamasa with him.
I want to go because i will never get another chance to do something
like this. My problem is i am involved with someone and he told me i
should go. but i am worried about what my happen on the cruise if i
go. Please tell me what you would do. Thanks
2006-06-23 14:10:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what happens in the bahamas stays in the bahamas.
2006-06-23 14:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by neal091982 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends. How much do you love your boyfriend? Even though he told you to go, you said yourself something might happen if you go on a cruise with your friend. Your boyfriend must trust you a lot. If you love your boyfriend and the relationship you are in with him, don't go. Why put your relationship at risk? If you value the Bahamas and your friend over your boyfriend, then break up with him and go. Be fair to him. Don't play with love. There is a very thin line between love and hate.
2006-06-23 14:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I know that I wouldn't get carried away on the cruise & would certainly not do something with the good male friend, then I would definitely go....because I have confidence in myself. On the other hand, if I knew that I just MIGHT get a little carried away, I wouldn't go. So this really depends on you. You know yourself better.
2006-06-23 14:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cali03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel comfortable around your male friend, enough so to be alone on a cruise with him?
I might ask if he expects sex but as a guy I can tell you the answer is yes. So the real question is are you going to have sex with him?
If you wanna go, go. If you don't, don't.
2006-06-23 14:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to decide where ur heart is do u want somthin to happen wit u a the guy on da cruise or r u feeling the guy ur wit do make somthin u have goin good into shambles because what if u lose the good thing.so find out how u feel then that should lead to ur answer
2006-06-23 14:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by baby_4th_unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go,if it is in your heart that nothing will happen then it wont,but if something does happen while your on the cruise then that means that you and your current partner arent meant to be anyways,you go have a good time and see where life is going to take you after that
2006-06-23 14:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question of morality.
Your best bet is to imagine yourself 10 years in the future; looking back on now, would you be proud of yourself for your decision?
2006-06-23 14:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if you do have any feelings other then just friends. If your intentions are good then I would go for it. Have fun but remember the ocean air makes you do crazy things....
2006-06-23 14:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO! You sound young enjoy life, things happen for a reason.
2006-06-23 14:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY BAGS R PACKED IM READY 2 GO!! I SAY IF U R NOT GONA GET ANOTHER CHANCE 2 DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS THEN GO!!!! BESIDES IT SOUNDS LIKE U R THE KINDA PERSON WHO WONDERS WHTA WILL OR COULDA BEEN N IF U DONT GO U WILL NEVER KNOW!!
2006-06-23 14:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by sexysweetbudsmoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously this guy is trying to steal your heart. If you really don't have any intensions of being with him in a romantic way they you are wasting his time and money.
2006-06-23 14:17:57 · answer #11 · answered by akpilotguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋