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I really like this one guy and we've went out for about 6 months everything was going good then one day he called me up on the phone and we were just talking like we normally do and he asked me if i liked the fact that we were dating and i was like ya i do he was like well i really like you but i wanna just be friends .. I waz like Ummm ok :-( I was very very sad ... But me and this guy are like best friends .. Its been about 6 month since we have went out but i still have so so sooooooooooo Much feelings for him i mean i tell this guy everything and he knows more about me then my "girl" friends do ...I stilll really like him alot and idk if i should tell him that i still like him or not .. I dont want it to ruin our friendship ... So my questions are ... Should i tell him how i feel ?
and what should i say ?
Do i just bring it up or what ?
I like him alot and idk what to do or say to him

Please Help !

~Ashley

2006-06-23 13:58:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

14 answers

If you tell him you are crazy about him 6 months after he dropped you, and you think you two are like, best friends... you also risk losing the friendship. The friendship will last forever, and he can be a very important part of your life...

If you spill your guts, which is more like a crush, really, because he doesn't reciprocate.. you could lose him as a friend. If you play your cool and stay friends, the right opportunity might pop up later.

2006-06-23 14:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sit him down and tell him EXACTLY how you feel. There is no reason this should ruin your friendship because if you are as close as you say then your worst case senario should be....

You spill your guts, he doesn't feel the same and he tells you and that's it.

But the key here is, you tell him ONCE and only ONCE and make sure he knows your never telling him again, it will stay with him a lot longer that way. He may have feelings for you and just now know what he wants in life, if you give him something to think about, he may just realize that he loves you

2006-06-23 21:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by tybardy 4 · 0 0

Poor girl... I would try feeling out the situation a little. Start reminising a little, about stuff you guys did a couple years ago when you were "just kids" maybe? And then try to seque the conversation into the time when you guys were dating. If he seems wistful too, or like he might have some lingering feelings, then go ahead and confess that you miss him and want to try dating again. If he really has moved on... well, I'm sorry honey, but you can't make someone love you, believe me, I've tried. Please note that if he is currently dating someone else, I would wait until he was single again before "making your move".

2006-06-23 21:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by pritti_dayzee 3 · 0 0

It is a great idea but a bad one at the same time. It would be good for you to get this off your chest but if you tell him and things do go great for a while and then you break up you loose your boy toy and a great friend. My advice is to never date your "boy" friends

2006-06-23 21:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok since ima guy i think i could help ya ...ok first you should call him or meet up with him somewhere. then tell or ask him "can i talk to you for a minute", and tell him that you still care about him, and wish ya'll were still together....and if he doesnt take the hint hes not worth you love/like/heart! i mean if a chick came up to me and said that i would def. take her up on another date but i guess it depends on what kinda guy he is

2006-06-23 23:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Trey C 1 · 0 0

I agree with the last answer never tell him your better off too wait it out and hope for change in feelings you need to hang around them more and figure out if maybe they have the same feelings for you. They might infact I know they do.
Jessica :-)

2006-06-23 21:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think that you should tell him i mena if you guys are really good friends i doubt that ou are gonna scare him away i prolly wouldnt spill my guts but maybe jus tbring it up casually one day and see what he says also tell him that you dont want to scare him away and he will just think that you still want to be friends no matter what which is how you feel right?

2006-06-23 21:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by dflipscrazy 2 · 0 0

aww sounds like you are pretty love sick huh? here is what i would do, talk to him face to face and tell him just how oyu feel, but be prepared to get shot down, but at least he will know how you feel and you will know how he feels, if it is meant to be it will be and if not be his friend, if you can if not then just try to move on. i know it sounds hard but i know there is a man out there for oyu not a boy but a man, who will love you.

2006-06-23 21:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by austinandjomasmama 2 · 0 0

So your best friend's a dude, so what. Let him know how you feel straight out, but you may just love him as a friend.

2006-06-23 21:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by marishka 5 · 0 0

Believe it or not, he may be sitting there waiting for you to make the first move. BY ALL MEANS TELL HIM AND NOW.

2006-06-23 21:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0 0

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