I'm a lesbian but these days i have feelings for boys i mean there is no way that i'm not a lesbian i had sex with three girls what is with me then why am i getting horny by boys????!!!!
2006-06-23 13:44:41 · 22 answers · asked by Jesse 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
do anything u love , i think ur bi curios,,,,, ur words turned me so hard on.
2006-06-23 16:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by xabrty 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
How old are you?
{Edit} Thanks for the contact.
At your age I (thought I) was straight and I had had a couple of very pleasant encounters with girls :). A year or two later I was off to University and started having encounters with men, decided that my experiences with girls were aberrations on my part and that I was gay. BUT when I went out with guys, I still thought about doing it with girls. Eventually, I tried it with a girl again and realised I still liked it - but I wanted to be with boys.
It took me until I hit my early twenties to be comfortable with being Bi.
Your situation reminds me so much of my past that I thought I should tell you a little of my story - so that you can know it's okay to feel bi-curious - and maybe to even act on your desires - if they're that strong, within you. Only those Gays and Lesbians that are so narrow-minded as to deserve to have their queer license revoked, will tell you that you are phoney.
My advice would be to take it slow (and be careful) but to experiment to see if boys do more than make you horny when you think about them.
And don't worry about labelling yourself gay, lesbian, straight, bi, or bi-curious! These words only point in the vague direction of a person's sexual orientation.
Good Luck!!
2006-06-23 14:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I've said a thousand times (more like 5 or 6 but u get it), don't try and force yourself into a title until your sure. Just be you and most likely things will work out. Forcing a title on yourself (ie lesbian, bi) you're doing nothing but putting pressure on yourself to be that and maybe you aren't? Understand?
2006-06-23 13:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brendon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? Maybe you are bi, and there is nothing at all wrong with that. Maybe you feel like you're in a rut, and you're looking for ways to make things exciting. And this doesn't just have to apply to your sex life.
Don't get so caught up in labels and political correctness. As long as your not hurting yourself or anyone else....who really cares who you sleep with?
2006-06-23 13:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're bi. And having sex with a girl, or even three, does not automatically make you a lesbian.
2006-06-23 13:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i wonder if some of these question posts are merely indirect ways of seeking sexual encounters with people of like mind. If you're old enough to know all about your lesbianism, it would follow that you must be acquainted with the concept of 'bi' too.
2006-06-23 13:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is perfectly normal. there is nothing wrong or weird about it. you are just being human. sometimes you are attracted to guys. most of the times to girls. you can label yourself a lesbian or whatever you wish. but at the end of the day, you are still a human who is searching for her happiness. find your happiness, discover your heart.
2006-06-23 15:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by patric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank your stars you get horny by boys, what if you got kinky. And certainly you're more curious about things missing with your female mates... and that makes you bi...
2006-06-23 14:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem...this is very common for both men and women. Perhaps we are more attracted to the person than we are to the sex of the person??
2006-06-23 14:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, thought I was a lesbian for a long time, turns out I think men are fun too. heehee. But as far as "relationships"-- it's always with women.
2006-06-23 13:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are BI. That would be the best of all worlds. Go and get layed. If you like it . You will know.
2006-06-23 15:53:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋