Seriously,I am over the whole thing. She is organising to pick me up & looking forward to me going. I honestly don't want to go. How do I tell her. I have tried to but she keeps trying to talk me into it.
2006-06-23 13:43:09 · 19 answers · asked by Joshua P 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
Don't tell her. It's only one day and its obviously very important to her that you come. She has worked really hard for this and deserves it. You can sacrifice a few hours of your time since it's only once in your life!
2006-06-23 13:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by happypanda03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that when you say you "don't want to go" that when it is something important to you, that you will be OK with her telling you the same thing. That is a very selfish attitude. She obviously isn't your "girlfriend"- she is just a friend. You should have been more honest about your relationship earlier. Part of the responsibility of a committed relationship (which is what being boyfriend/girlfriend means) is doing things for the other person that you don't necessarily want to do.
2006-06-23 22:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by wolfmusic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really is your girlfriend then you need to man up and go anyway! Don't be an a$$. This isn't a no reason block party. This is a graduation celebrating someone's years of hard work. If you don't want to be in the relationship anymore then that's one thing. Break it off. If you do then you need to go.
2006-06-23 20:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her a "congratulations" card and something nice....flowers or whatever. Tell her that you really feel like this is something that people who have been together longer would do...and it makes you feel uncomfortable since your relationship is brand-new. Let her know that you are really happy for her and proud and that you'll take her out to dinner the next night, but you really feel like this is something she should share with her family.
Good Luck!
2006-06-23 20:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man! She is gonna be PISSED! You better not tell her that you are simply not going-- tell her you ARE going and bring her flowers and take her out to dinner, and do it!
But if you don't love her, then tell her but don't tell her that day or the day before; don't ruin her day!
Of course tho, if she doesn't love you, she won't care what you say to her or if you show up or not.
Come on! Be her boyfriend and be there.
2006-06-23 22:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to go? If you don't have a good reason maybe you should reconsider. It's probably important to her to have the people she loves with her on this landmark occasion. If you have a good reason tell her and if she is a reasonable person she will understand.
2006-06-23 20:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lleh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend wanted me to go to his high school graduation but i didn't feel like going, so i told him that i was really proud of him, but that he should use his ticket for a family member because although i am very proud of him, i think that a family member would be more appreciative of the ticket. and that i would celebrate after with him.
also, lucky for me his mom hated me and used that into my argument.
good luck.
2006-06-23 21:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by dabaygurl510 b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel her that you don't want to. It's not your thing. If she's your new grilfriend you wouldn't have helped support her through it for very long. Just plan something else for the night and say you have other plans.
2006-06-23 21:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem? Go to her graduation, it's important to her. That's so selfish. Unless you don't like her as a girlfriend very well.
2006-06-23 20:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do her a favor and say you're not right for her, and give her enough advanced time as possible to invite someone else in your place. Then don't call.
2006-06-23 20:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋