im so scared now because the docs said that they will try n turn the baby (he's sideways) n induce labor next friday the 30th? lol idk i think but newayz if he does turn cause hes breech than its an imediae c-section n idk why but i got this really bad feeling that idk somethings gonna happen so now im like freaking scared idk i mean wut if something happens to my mom or ma lil bro !!! i just want him to be healty n my mom to be fine idk wut o do to calm our nerves ma lil bor has a fluid sac like on his balls so everythings right now the doctor has said is all "maybe or idk or you never know" im so ughhhh i need some straight answers my mom feels it coming for monday she said she cant even walk any more im so scared wtf is wrong with me!!!!!!!!
2006-06-23 13:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by nena56 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
thanx everyone for all the help sorry i sounded so desperate i just am the doctor seems worried and i have been there for every one of her visits n there has never been a problem until now!! its just so disapointing idk but im excited now and much more calm thanx!!
2006-06-23 15:23:12 · update #1
You are normal.You are supposed to be scared, its normal.I have had 4 children.One had to be csection, one pulled with forceps, and another with a vacuum.The doctors know what they are doing.It will not hurt your baby nor will it hurt you.They almost had to induce one of mine too.It was planned to be induced that morning, but I went in labor that nite.The baby will come when it is ready.If the drs are worried, they will induce and/or csection.They have been doing this forever.Their job is take care of you and your child and I am sure they will.good luck
2006-06-23 13:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, calm the f*ck down. Babies are born everyday. It is something that comes naturally. A breech baby just means that his butt is down and your mom can survive a C-section. I have had two of them. Have faith in your moms doctor and pray for happiness. The more stressed out you are, more than likely the more stressed out your mom will be. You need to stay calm and be strong. She might be worried but she doesn't need you to worry about too. You are going to be the big one. Your mom would probably appreciate it if you would help her out, take some of the load off of her. Keep her comfortable. If something is wrong with his little "nutty buddies" I am sure the hospital will treat the problem when he is delivered. They have handled emergency and trauma deliveries.. a little butt baby is next to nothing. Nothing left to fear. Good luck.
2006-06-23 20:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's VERY common to have to try to turn a baby. It's fine 4 the baby and your mom. RELAX if you are a natural worried person I think your mom should have told you less about what was going on. IT'S ONLY causing unnecessary stress to you. Of course you would worry even if every thing was perfect its your mom. They will be both be FINE you said nothing that would make me think either of them are in DANGER. A c section is not the worst thing that can happen in delivery. She will need more time to heal and will be sore but, women don't die from c sections. The problem with the baby's boy parts will and can be fixed after birth it will not kill him. He may have a small surgery AT THE VERY WORST. CONGRATS...
2006-06-23 21:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, im 39 weeks and my baby is breech, i have to have a c section on monday because of a rare blood disorder that i have, and im really scared too, but if you have the one you love there with you it will all be ok, make sure you have a lot of support and love around you and also think of the "prize" you will get for all this, just try to relax and trust your doctors thaty know whta they are doing, ill pray for you
2006-06-23 20:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by austinandjomasmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're scared you're loose your mother and/or brother. Don't worry too much; you can't do any good by worrying, AND turning the baby is a fairly simple thing to do. As for fluid sacs on his balls, they can't really do anything until he's out. If you believe in a God, pray. If you don't... pray anyways. Then you'll feel like you're doing something, and it just might help.
2006-06-23 20:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prey
2006-06-23 20:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Avatar: The Last Airbender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋