moreso if you know he is doing the same to you
2006-06-23 13:31:03 · 16 answers · asked by GHOST 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think so. "Partners" should trust each other, otherwise there's nothing there anyway. All people, regardless their relationships, should have their privacy. I wouldn't allow my girlfriend to check my phone, even if I'm not fooling around, since it's not her right. If he's checking your phone, he's violating your privacy and independence, and I would recommend installing a password on your phone and talking to him about it. I wouldn't want to check my partner's phone in some form of revenge. Whatever the romance novels with Fabio on the covers say, getting too close to other people finds only ugliness, and I personally would rather not see that in my partner. Allow him to have his secrets if he wants, as he should allow you.
2006-06-23 13:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Fenris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the two of you have serious trust issues, you need tot alk to him about the problem there isnt a solution to you not trusting him in his phone records, if there is nothing he is going to find in your phone records no reason for him to be suspicious that tell him that and ask him why he checks yours maybe its because he does have something to hide and suspects you do the same thing he does in which cas echecking his phone records will only cause you mor eheartache and problems talk about it if he said you were the only one and your not than maybe hes not worth being with
2006-06-23 13:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particularly no longer. particularly everyone has a suited to 3 privateness, whether it is basically innocuous stupid stuff. in case you have faith your companion, you do no longer could desire to be checking up on them. it is that easy. Insisting you could desire to be waiting to look basically screams "i'm going to assert I have faith you, yet i in my opinion do no longer". interior the 60s, you could desire to no longer get the call documents to your telephone without an inquiry to the telephone organisation, and there had to be a good reason. And it is against Federal regulation to open somebody else's mail. and persons have been, many times, well mannered sufficient to abide by that. with the exception of suspicious paranoid assholes who seen their spouse as components and felt they had the surprising to regulate each and every component of their lives.
2016-12-08 12:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means! What you should do is come up with a phony(made up) phone book with different names and phone numbers plus a little message on that person. Teach him a lesson.
2006-06-23 13:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by ZORRO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO two wrongs dont make a right even if he checks ur email/phone dont check his email/phone if u love and trust him
2006-06-23 13:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the 2 of you know that you are doing it, then it is ok.
2006-06-23 13:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether it is "right" or "wrong" -- what's important is that you are dating someone who you don't trust. What a waste of time. Move on to someone you trust, or learn to trust him.
2006-06-23 13:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If you don't trust each other what's the point in pretending you are partners.?
2006-06-23 13:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by basscatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does that matter in a relationship.if it does then its not a healthy relationship .if u love somebosy set it free if it comes back to u it was urs and if it never does it was never yours .learn to trust
2006-06-23 13:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by nisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is sooooooo possessive and annoying although it can be romantic, loving and caring...
i wouldn't check all the time but once in a while it is ok.
2006-06-23 13:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋