mom hate him should i leave him?
2006-06-23 13:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by ree-ree 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No,you shouldnt have too.That is your life and your choice.If the two of you love one another and plan on staying together and raise your kid,nothing else should matter.Dont leave the guy,just to make your mother happy.That is your life and you have a right to be with who ever you want to be with.Your mother should respect that and be glad that she will have a grandchild.Congrats and Good Luck
2006-06-30 13:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~Devilz~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think...
Why does your mom hate him? Tell her that you're sorry for getting pregnant and ask her to objectively tell you why she hate your boyfriend.
Mom knows best for you... If her answer sounds selfish and she just hates your boyfriend for getting you pregnant, then I don't think you should leave your boyfriend...
If your mom thinks that he won't be a good father and good husband to you, then think about it as objectively as possible... leave him if that's the best for you in the future.
2006-06-23 20:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um u cant officially leave him if you're pregnant to him but if she didn't start disliking him until you told her the news that you are pregnant, then you shouldnt dump him. But if she never liked him, you might wanna find out why, check into that because in most cases, the ''mother knows whats best'' and maybe she senses something negative about him.
2006-06-23 20:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's the father than you should be glad that he is willing to stick around. It's not your moms kid it's your and his. Even if you break up he should at least have the option to be apart of the kids life
2006-06-23 20:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you love him, is he good to you, can he support you and your child? if all these ar ea yes than no dont leave him, you stick by him, now if she hates him cuz he hits you or is a low life or does drugs well than thats diffrent. you do what is best for you and now your baby as well!!
2006-06-23 20:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by austinandjomasmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave based solely on what my mother thought.
What do you think?
It would help to know more about you, and about him.
We'd like to think that mothers know everything and that they always are right. But, sorry- they don't know everything and they certainly aren't always right.
Ask again, giving us more information and I'll have a better answer.
2006-06-23 20:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by niteowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually u should worry if the guy leaves u. but u wanna leave him? U SHOULDN"T!!! MANY WOMEN WISH THERE MAN WAS STILL W/ THEM!!!!! this guy wants to help u and u refuse???? SHAME ON U!!
2006-06-23 22:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MISS REE REE I PRAY HE IS AROUND YOUR AGE.NOW IF YOU LEAVING HIM WHAT IS THAT GOING TO DO? THE WROST PART IS DONE . NOW YOUR MOM AND HIS MOM AND DAD'S NEED TOGETHER (IF POSSIBLE) TO SEE WHAT THERE GOING TO DO TO HELP YOU...I CAN GO ON AND ON BUT I WILL LET IT BE MOM SHOULD OF HAD THE TALK WITH YOU AND IF SHE DID YOU SHOULD OF PLAYED YOUR PART
2006-06-23 21:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by grow_inside_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi do you love your man well that's all that matters your mum will eventually like him and if not its her los of a daughter things will probably change after bub is born i hope this helps
2006-06-23 20:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by tammy_wll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? Don't leave him if you still love him.
2006-06-23 20:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋