my mom said she is strongly against that
2006-06-23 13:20:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your mother is already shameful for making you feel so guilty about something that is part of you. It isnot your fault, but her small-mindedness. She needs to learn something about life and she wouldn't be the first parent to learn an important lesson from their offspring.
2006-06-23 13:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Often, u are just confused and feel not confident with men. Take it easy and know more about the male. U can start mixing and playing with little boys - I mean riding bikes, go swimming with them etc. You'll realise that actually you DO like having a male companion.
I'm not against homosexuals at all, my point is that I have many homo friends but most of them are just confused.
2006-06-23 20:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by cswroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends how old you are if your in the ages between 13-16 you might just be experimenting you probably don't know what you want but i think you should wait until the time is right and then tell them they might not be happy about it but there your family and they have to except you no matter what.Good Luck
2006-06-23 23:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to pray and ask God to deliver you from the sin of homosexuality and u wont have to worry about putting ur family to shame.
2006-06-24 02:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know because someone has convinced you you are wrong most cases an older person gets a younger person to think they are gay by being especially nice, manipulating them until they are convinced. it is normal and natural to have strong feelings towards same gender, but not natural to have sex - don''t confuse loneliness for lesbianism - just because it feels good does not mean anything - all gay people have an agenda to get as many other people as they can to become gay - try just not dating anyone & for your mom's sake don't have sex either way - people are not born gay - try going to church to get the real facts of life.
2006-06-23 20:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your family cant love you for who you are then you dont need them, you need to tell them though you cant live a lie cuz it will just kill you inside, but if your parents truly love you and i know they do they will accept you maybe not your life style and maybe not right away but they will come around. just remember that you are who you are and you cant change that, they will eventually understand. good luck!
2006-06-23 20:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by austinandjomasmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to calmly explain to her that your a lesbian. It is your life, not hers. Everybody has differences. As for the rest of your family, talk to each one separately so not everyone is asking questions at once.
2006-06-23 20:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lovin♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u ( cuz if you are younger then 16 then u r not sure.. yet) and if your parents really love u then they will except u for u
2006-06-23 20:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuo should not care what people are going to think about you.And about your family well they should not be ashamed of what you are,they need to accept you just the way you are.Thats what I think.Just tell your mom to put herself in your place how would she feel if she is not accepted?
2006-06-23 20:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not shameful to accept who you are. If your mother really loves you she will learn to accept who you are too. Be who you were born to be.
2006-06-23 21:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋