my bestfriends mother has been with her husband for about 10 years. We recently saw him out with another women, he was really touch-ie with her. we then followed him wich led us to a hotel where he then took this other women.. We rushed back to the house and began to explain what we saw. Her response was "I did'nt see it my self so won't believe it . I'm so tired of telling her over n over again. I give up!! Sometimed i say to my self let it be she'll find out her self but i cant stand to see her hurt when she deserves better!!!!!!!
2006-06-23 13:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by lookingdabest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Once you informed her of what you saw, it is not your responsibility to control her reaction. Different people deal with things differently. Don't sweat it. I admire your honesty, but don't get too involved.
2006-06-23 13:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, my moms the same way. Somethings I tell her are true, and in the back of her mind she knows it, but she'll never come out and say it because she doesn't want to be wrong. I guess it's has a little something to do with pride. You have done all you can, and I agree that she deserves better, but sometimes you have to let people find that out the hard way because that's the only way people learn.
Good Luck!
=)
2006-06-23 14:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Janet E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should realise there are lots of family and friends who create trouble so u should make sure she sees it with her own eyes and hears with her own ears then shell know its true shes just being careful u cant throw away something like marriage listening to anyone other then hearing that person confess on their own or seeing it for urself
2006-06-23 13:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you can't stand to see her hurt, but it doesn't sound like she's hurting -- it sounds like YOU are, and for some reason you're trying to make trouble.
That doesn't mean you shouldn't have told her; of course you should have. However, what she does with that information is her decision to make, and once you've delivered that information, you need to let it go.
2006-06-23 13:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably already knows and doesn't want to face the truth. It's her life, let her do what she feels she must.
2006-06-23 13:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by G.V. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
denial isn't a river, she doesn't want to believe, maybe she was alone for a long time b4 she got him and don't want to be alone again, or she has someone and it's an open marriage and they didn't bother telling you
2006-06-23 13:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes scared to find out for herself!!thats what it sounds like to me!
2006-06-23 13:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋