We belong to a poor family and i always have no free time for myself. Even just hang out with friends, I always have to helf my parent on there bussiness. And they don't want me to get boyfriend untill i'm 18 but when i met this riched bussiness man when i was 14 and his 43. He liked me to marry him when i was 16 and my parent pressured me too. So i marry him in the beginning i was cold on him, i show no love. Then i start to pity him because his innocent he don't know that i marry him because my parent forced me. I tried my best to be happy with him but everytime i remember that i have no fun in my life in the past. I feel that i should have more experience how to live by my self without to be depend on anyone. My husband once said that if really want to get the experience to be alone he would give me 1or2 weeks. then i decide if i want him or not. I don't take it because i start to liked him too,i just wonder what he would do in that time.If i take it he said that i don't care 4 him.
2006-06-23 12:46:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm confused what to do, I can't live without him too. No one would accept me for job, i don't even finish high school. I'm from asia.
What should i do?
2006-06-23 12:59:17 · update #1
i know it must be so hard to love a really old guy. but love can come in different packages. i think first of all, you should start finishing the school. make him pay for school or whatever. expert something u r good at. then start saving money only for u....a little bit for month.
you may love ur husband more than u know. if he treats u well then i think u can be together. lives are not like films. not everybody gets that dreamy guy who finally achieve millions all of a sudden, it is hard. so try to forget other dreamy lives but try to find out who u r really.
2006-06-23 13:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by answerer101 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a difficult situation. I really feel for you. As for your husband, it's hard because he is so much older. However, from your writing, he seems like a nice guy that really cares for you and your feelings. I wish you wouldn't dwell on the past. As an adult and married woman, you have many opportunities. You can get a college degree, go out with friends (esp. when he's at work), and have a fulfilling life. Do you do those things? If money is not an option, this may help you feel more independent without taking the time away from him. School and friends will round out your life and that may be all you need. Good luck.
2006-06-23 19:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dukie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that very sad but if you are begninnig to like him give it time and do something to improve yourself go to college or uni you will need these to get on you own feet if you deciede to leave him one day so make the most of the time you have with him so when you do leave ,you do'nt go back to you parents becoz they will blame you and life might even be harder
good luck
2006-06-23 20:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can't force you to marry you dont love, by the way are you in the USA or in india , anyway if you marry someone against your will, you will suffer a lot of pains emotionally and mentally, try to find a way out of this
2006-06-23 19:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by lepactodeloupes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, don't get married, instead go back to school.
After reading what you wrote, I would rather you go back to school. Really!
2006-06-23 20:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is nasty whats happening to the world what kind of fricked up parents do u have i mean honestly this is disgusting im disgusted
2006-06-23 19:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared if he dont want you anymore, there are plenty of men who would take you.
2006-06-23 20:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TROLL alert
2006-06-23 19:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by yogabbagabba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not even cool
2006-06-23 19:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋