Do you think he/she is cheating
2006-06-23 12:22:58 · 33 answers · asked by sweet nell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Could be.
2006-06-23 12:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by einstein 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it means they're cheating. It certainly is a possibility, but not the only one. The spouse may be depressed or having sexual side effects from medication. Being tired can be a factor as well. I know sex is the last thing I think about at the end of a day when I've been run ragged by my 2 year old and work. There can be medical of psychiatric conditions leading to lack of interest in sex.
2006-06-23 12:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by jada_riab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO just because someone does not want sex with their partner does not mean they are cheating. Maybe something is missing within your relationship but it does not mean that your spouse is going elsewhere to find the missing chapter. You should try talking to each other and find out what the problem is because if you let it go too long it will stay this way and then it will become to hard to talk about and become a REAL problem. Good Luck
2006-06-23 12:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by theresa l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who knows is your spouse.
It could be many things and doesn't automatically mean cheating. There could be a medical issue that your spouse is uncomfortable with, it could be distance in your marriage, it could mean something that has nothing to do with you.
Loss of interest in sex could mean a hormonal or chemical imbalance as well.
You need to ask your spouse if you want to understand. Once you know the reason you can offer to make an appointment with a physician or marriage counselor if you think that could help. Or maybe a simple talk can fix the whole problem once you understand what is wrong.
2006-06-23 12:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it means they are very upset. You need to find out why they are so upset. If it's you, then fix it! If it's not you find out what it is and fix it. If you cannot find out what it is, they are hiding something and they might be cheating. Which ever way it goes, you first must realize that you have not been as supportive as you should have been and helped let this happen. You need to tune into your spouse and give more of yourself. Listen to them and don't start with accusations. Start with questions like, "what can I do to make you happy again" or, "Is there anything I should know about?" and LISTEN to what they have to say then act on it in a positive way.
2006-06-23 13:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Obvious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be stressed and pre-occupied with things at work, and just doesn't feel up to it. Has it been a while since the two of you had sex? If your husband is over 35, its a prove fact that men like women, go thru menopause. They share most of the same symptoms that women do, which is mood swings, a lost of sex drive, fatigue, and on and on. If he is not around 35 or so, then with out probable cause, just chalk it up to mental fatigue or low estergen levels. Give it a little time and it should work its way back to normal. Don't believe the worst until you have solid evidence.
2006-06-23 12:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse might be cheating - but a bigger issue you might want to consider is the fact that maybe your spouse doesn't feel a connection to you - which indicated a huge problem in your marriage.
You should talk to your partner and be honest about how you feel and how you are concerned about the relationship. Talk it out and be calm and honest. Another good thing to do would be to suggest marriage counseling.
2006-06-23 12:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might not be in the mood or might be having a health problem that has low sex drive as a sideaffect.Ask if there is something on their mind and talk to them before you automatically think they are cheating,unless there are obvious signs of cheating.
2006-06-23 12:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, Well First, I would ask myself how long has this been going on?? Second, has anything else changed in your family life regarding you or your spouse or any children you might have or extended family? Thirdly, Has your spouse changed his/her usual schedule? (that is usually the first indication) With all your responses to the questions you should be able to decide whether further investigation into the changes in your spouse could be warranted by the big " I ".... Infidelity..............Usually if your man/woman isn't doing it, they are usually doing it with someone else!!!!! Good luck..........
2006-06-23 12:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by brandey28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru the same thing with my husband. We went three weeks without any and I accused him of cheating and he left me for a week and come to find out he was so stressed at work by his boss (the boss got fired cuz of the way he treated his men), instead of me asking and showing him support I atomactly jumped the the conclusion he was cheating. Please sit down and find out what the real reason is, you just might be suprised
2006-06-23 13:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird. if that's whats going on then something is wrong. Talk to ur spouse. maybe he or she isn't ready though if they made a marriage commitment they committed their heart, soul, mind, and body. Remind of them of this but don't pressure them b/c they may feel uncomfortable or maybe self-conscious, or hiding something about themselves. Tell how this makes u feel and remind them that they can trust you. if u don't do something now ur marriage might as well be over. They might be cheating so be prepared but ull never know unless u talk to them.
2006-06-23 12:28:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋