No way, I would be way too hurt. Plus if they do that then they don't really appreciate you. So why should you stay with them. I might forgive them if they cheated once when they were drunk or something, and I could tell that it was absolutely something that they regret and I am the only one they want. However, making a separate whole new side life from you, that is just saying that you are not enough for them for one. And damn it....why would anybody forgive anybody who would do that s***. They don't even deserve a new girlfreind or wife ever again in their entire lives!!! If that happened to be I would tell any new person that he attempted to date what happened, so they would leave him!! He doesn't deserve s***!!
2006-06-23 12:30:29
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answered by Green Tea Happy 3
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It is not easy. For some people it is not even possible. I still recommend forgiveness. The spouse who cheated doesn't care whether or not he/she is forgiven. When the person who was cheated on harbors bitterness and anger, he/she suffers even more because of the toxic emotions.
2006-06-23 19:28:36
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answered by Rainbow 5
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Forgive? Yes... probably in time. But I couldn't go on with the relationship. It would be painful but I would never ever be able to trust them again and that is no way to live. I'd have to say goodbye.
2006-06-23 19:26:53
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answered by sincityq 5
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Not a hope in hell. If you stay with someone who has been unfaithful to you, you are giving them licence to do it again and if they truly loved you they would never have done it in the first place.
2006-06-23 19:34:09
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answered by Kitty 3
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I forgave mine but it took a few years, now she wants back into mine. Sorry not happening.
2006-06-23 19:26:51
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answered by Not Tellin 4
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I'd thank God if I were married and my wife did something like that.
-J.
2006-06-23 19:25:48
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answered by Jason 4
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forgive .. perhaps.. but NEVER forget
2006-06-23 19:25:57
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answered by swiper_no_swiping2006 2
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NO WAY IN HELL, WHOEVER WOULD FORGIVE THEM IS DESPERATE!
2006-06-23 19:26:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think I would be able to
2006-06-23 19:25:46
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answered by mutt 6
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yes..i would..
2006-06-23 19:26:02
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answered by Vivek 4
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