What I am supposed to doI have always a soar hole since my husband is very aggressive we make a sex 4 to 5 times a day for quarter an hour long ,I love sex very much but its too much extreme for me. My husband has always a strong sausage. We`re both 30 yrs. old. Too much sex in our age is healthy? Please help. I make him adivorce or what.
2006-06-23 12:05:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Do you think he could teach my hubby lol..wish i had that prob
2006-06-23 12:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of men. We want it as often as possible. The only cure is to let your husband do it with a toy. There are blow-up dolls and very realistic models of a woman's anatomy below the waist. These toys are made for sexual use and can be replaced when they wear out.
If that doesn't work then might let your husband take a mistress, but you would probably hate that. Men seek mistress to get the additional sex they are craving and as an ego stroke, which is why they like to go for younger women.
You are still young so too much sex should not be a health problem, unless you are sick or very overweight (and hey it is considered a great exercise).
2006-06-23 12:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If 4 or 5 times a day is not what you want, then yes it is too much!
Does he know he is hurting you? Does he take something to make him want sex that many times/day. Sex is a very individualized. You absolutely should not have to make yourself have sex if you think it's too much. Women have to be ready as well as the man. If he has an erection then he can have sex, but your need to be ready too. If he is hurting you then you are not ready. Talk to him. If he loves you he should understand that you are in pain. What happened to the concept of making love?
He needs to know how you feel or you guys are in trouble, relationship wise.
From a female perspective, good luck.
2006-06-23 12:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by kitdanurse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the makin love to other women thing was just a bluff to get u to give in - he seems like a great guy - the guy that the women on Y!A harp about wanting to have - I kno tiredness can make u not wanna but u said urself he does the house work and massages u - I really dont think its hard on u to make love to him after he's done all of those things - u kinda backed him into a corner - u basically said "when u feel like it u'll give it up - despite the provisions he makes 4 u" so he used the only weapon he could use - many other women would love to get with me - which he was right - he is a one of kind man - do u wanna lose that just because u are a lil tired?
2016-03-27 02:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sorry but that is NOT too much sex. It is possible you may not be getting enough natural lubrication. I strongly urge you to see a doctor and stop trying to figure out what is wrong on your own. You could have a mild rash, or some other health concern/issue. Go to a doctor or clinic now please. Five times a day is fine, the soar hole is not. Something is wrong, go for help and now.
2006-06-23 12:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. The fact that he has a strong desire to have sex with you is good for a healthy relationship at your age. But obviously, given your issue here, some discussion with him will probably rectify the situation. If he loves you as much as he likes to have sex with you, he'll understand and work something out.
2006-06-23 12:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by TL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY...My mom had this issue with her fiance. He had too much Testosterone and he's 52! He had to be put on women's hormones to lower it. He cries some now but the STRONG sex urge is gone. Oh don't worry..he still wants to but not anything like he was...and my mom said he was always wanting it.
2006-06-23 16:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Meg Madison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...your husband WANTS to have sex with you and you complain?? are you kidding me? instead of complaining about having sex too much, be grateful he's not finding someone else to have sex with. maybe he's secretly taking viagra, that's always a thought. or maybe encourage him to last longer.those short sessions may not be doing it for him. Another thought, why are you not enjoying it as much as him? is he doing something incorrectly? because if you are not having as much fun as he is, something isn't right. Perhaps he feels since he is lacking in quality, he tries to make up for in quantity?
2006-06-23 12:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest sweetly telling him that you are concerned about this and you just would let to have slow sexy intercourse for a change. Don't be aggressive in telling him you'll only make things worse.
Quality not Quantity. Divorce is not always the answer but he needs to respect you.
2006-06-23 12:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Sister Sandy (RN) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent learned to spell yet? and u can get sex 5 times a day? do you work? thought about school? gurl, 5 times a day is nice, u don't know what you got till it's gone..blow on it...lol lol waaaa. do you know how many women would want to be in your position? n e way, enjoy, while u can>>>>>>
2006-06-23 12:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should tell him how you feel and tell him that hes hurting you. and try to be in control were you make all the moves try playing a game wre you mak all the moves so you get to enjoy it the way you want to. Tell him to slow down. you go gurl u must be in good shape to go so much time a day.
2006-06-23 12:10:26 · answer #11 · answered by Shabatel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋