2006-06-23 11:40:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You will obiously STILL be in love with them. Listen to your parents.
2006-06-23 11:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by jacquelyn. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young to me. I say, listen to your family because before you reach the age of 30 you will be in "love" many times. Take it for granted that if your parents don't like somebody, it's usually because they have more experience than you and have a reason. If the reason is prejudice--well, maybe they still have a point because they don't want you to have to put up with all the people who would disapprove and give you grief because you march to a different drummer. Do the best you can do for yourself and get yourself to a point where you can afford to make whatever decisions you make and take the consequences for the decisions you make. When you make bad decisions and you are young, your decisions usually impact your family.
2006-06-23 11:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question _____It depends on WHY they don't want you with this person. They know things that you don't__ Maybe they just don't want you to get pregnant
If it is really Love and this person really is the right person for you __ a qualified grown-up will see that eventually__ because they want good for you, too. If he is good.. he will always be good to you-- and nothing bad will happen-- but if he is not good and your parents are right__ you Could be making a big mistake..........
2006-06-23 11:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by goodcharacter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I learned is that parents usually know best. Two reasons, first they know us better than anyone and know what kind of people we are best with. Second, they aren't blinded by love and the feelings we are feeling for that person so they are better able to see the negatives and the positives of the relationship.
2006-06-23 11:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a good reason why your parents dont' want you with this person? Do you know what love is? Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. If this dosen't describe your relationship or you are basing it on "warm fuzzies" it's not love.
2006-06-23 11:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you have good parents maybe their is a reason for them not wanting you to be with that person... sounds like your hooked on bad bait... I would recommend finding out what turns you on about that person and then ask the question to yourself what is true love...
2006-06-23 11:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by and1player2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents only have your best interest at heart. They will not do anything that will hurt, harm or destroy you. In other words, they are not your enemy. They are simply protecting you. That's what parents do.
So you have to be matured enough to know what kind of person you are fighting for. Is he worth fighting for? Are you both ready and matured enough to have a relationship and handle the consequences of your actions?
2006-06-23 11:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Bu Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love waits and is patient.
However, parents usually wish the best for their children. Try to figure out WHY your parents dont want you with them... maybe they want you to wait a little longer and concentrate on school, maybe they dont want the influence in your life, or maybe they dont want to let their little girl go. Its all a learning experience for YOU and YOUR PARENTS... but first... try to understand why they do not like the idea;) and wait a bit... there is no rush!
2006-06-23 11:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by GrSn - a clever man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this to your parents" If you really love me you'll let me be with the person I love because it makes me happy".
2006-06-23 11:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents cant live your life for you if you love that person then its up to you.
2006-06-23 11:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Debz 1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times, parents know best. Ask your parents why they don't want you to date him, and then analyze things and see if its going to benefit you or if its going to be a waist of time. Good Luck.
2006-06-23 11:44:00 · answer #11 · answered by *Sweetz* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋