2006-06-23 11:40:53 · 24 answers · asked by MD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok this has happened to me Men do things like this for a number of reasons: they feel they are not getting enough attention, they are bored and restless in the relationship or you are having trouble getting along,,,but whatever the reason this is UNACCEPTIBLE!
Confront him ASAP tell him how you feel about him and how much this hurts you, find out what prompted him to seek companionship outside your relationship.
Perhaps its merely sexual reasons. If this is the case try to spice it up a bit. If he refuses to communicate I would reconsider setting a wedding date
2006-06-23 11:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by eastcoastraven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough, I've answered this question before saying that some people have accounts on those sites for the sheer humor of it as some of the profiles are laughably desperate etc, but this boy is actually using the site to meet women.
I think that you should confront him about this and ask him to stop. He will make a big fuss probably, but this isn't something a married man does. Also, since when does he have all this time to go meeting women for coffee? Why doesn't he take you to coffee?
2006-06-23 11:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could question him about it, but that could backfire. He would want to know how you found out. Either by snooping on him or browsing the site yourself. What I personally would do is get a screen name on that site and try to arrange a date. If he asks for a pic, pull one out of a magazine or something and email that. Then when you arrange the date, you show up and catch him. How would he explain being there?
You need to decide for yourself, after this, do you want to leave him or not. Just when you do decide keep in mind that he was on this dating website and most likely browsing for your replacement. If you live with him, you need to make sure you have arrangements when he does find this replacement. Having coffee doesn't look like people looking for a one night stand, it's more like they're looking for a meaningful relationship.
Good luck either way!!!
2006-06-23 11:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him first of all. Why would he be meeting other women for coffee? How do you know it's just coffee and not more? If he is doing this now, think what he's going to do later.
2006-06-23 11:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him before he dumps you, he's obviously checking out the inventory before the final purchace. leave while you still have the upper hand. and don't let him feed you a line that he only wanted to talk. people who put a profile on a dating website wants to do more than just talk.
2006-06-23 11:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by JoHanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely confront him on this. Hopefully, your fiance should have a good explanation for his actions. But better to find out before your married that he's not Mr. Right, than after.
2006-06-23 11:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by TL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm you can sit back and wait to see if he is going to cheat. OR you can be a true woman about yours and ask him what is it he looking for in the woman online? I believe you need to know if your not enough woman for him, or is he just seeking a sexual relationship outside of you. ASK HIM so you can clear your heart and soul, not going crazy over some BS.. If he loves you and respect you for you he shouldn't be creepin period
2006-06-23 11:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insulting you!
He is still "shopping" after having proposed to you!
This is outrageous!
Back out gracefully and remember your first duty is your own
wellbeing!
Read material on how to detect a "good" man,find one,and have a great life!
2006-06-23 11:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him. Even if you confront him it does not matter. His attempting to date other people is a clear indication that he is not ready to be married. Walk away from the relationship.
2006-06-23 11:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check the profile to see when he last logged on (maybe its from before he met you) if not than confront him and gaze in his eyes the whole time so he doesnt lie
2006-06-23 11:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋