ok.....long story but i need to know the answer..
i like this guy ALOT and i dont know if he likes me but last year he signed my yearbook saying " ill talk to u next year and dont ever change so & so " but this year i havent talk to him as much as i did last year i didnt even know if we r friends anymore.... so i didnt think we were friends... but on wed afternoon after our last day assembly.... me and my friends were walking around getting signatures and my friend asked the guy i liked to sign her book i was standing rite next to her, wondering if i should ask him to sign my yearbook...... and in the end i didnt but he didnt ask me either... so i didnt think he would want me to write in his yearbook
did i ruin it the chances of being friends again even more because i dont even know if he really likes me in return
so wut now?? do i talk to him on aim and just act like it never happened or am i taking this out of portion???
2006-06-23 11:23:55 · 24 answers · asked by ♥♥♥dannii 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just talk to him, nothing is ruined, it sseems to me that he thinks you dont wanna talk to him, he doesnt want to make you mad.
2006-06-23 11:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jake S 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lot of this kind of thing is created by a lack of communication. It is likely that this boy is similarly confused about you. Perhaps he feels that since you didn't ask him to sign your yearbook than you do not want him to sign your yearbook. You need to realize that boys feel the same as you, they are not pillars of confidence and cannot know what you feel or need from them.
you need to talk with this boy, tell him that you'd like to stay friends but you feel as though you are drifting apart. Tell him you'd like to go out with him or do things with him. Tell him how you felt about the yearbook and how it made you feel that he didn't sign it. Tell him you like him or you will just be confused until he finds another girl or he somehow accidentally asks you out!
2006-06-23 11:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, another long story - in return for yours :D... My friend once met a guy on icq - a nice boy, etc. etc. They talked for 1,5 years, and all this time she felt he was, well, sort of luke-warm to her... Finally he came to see her, and when the decision about their further life had to be made, he only said, "I don't know anything right now". So, my advice is: if you feel it's like neither this, nor that, like neither fish nor meat, get away A.S.A.P!!! Or you'll only lose the time, because it's GUYS who must show the interest, not US!!!
2006-06-23 11:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by imperial_estate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have, who knows. Please don't dwell on it. And do not regret it! Take it as a lesson learned. Don't be so shy with him, as far as you know he may think your not interested b/c u didn't talk to him first.. you see what I'm sayin'? I think you should talk to him, act like nothing happened. Just be flirty and cute. Hey you guys might end up chillin' this summer. Best of luck and don't worry about it. There will be TONS of other hotties in ur life. I am sure of that!
2006-06-23 11:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Fancy Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you making it allot more complicated then what it has to be just talk to the boy and see if there is a friendship there.
i had the same thing well kind of i had a Friend that i used to hang out with and then i got pregnant and we did not see each other for a year and a half and then one day we saw each other and i gave him my phone # and we started talking and now he is my husband.
if you don't try you well never know
2006-06-23 11:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by turtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it a big deal, next time you see him act like nothing bad has ever happenned. Then start up the friendship slowly. Maybe remidn him of how you still read what he wrote last time in your year book.
2006-06-23 11:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by suheilly13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call him and talk or hang out because little miss thang,, that probably pissed him of sense you were friends and stopped talking on top of that you shouldn't care what your other friends think. I've been out of school for 2 years and for two years i've only seen 2 people from school. there your friends now but it will all change after..............peace Ro
2006-06-23 11:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make a big deal just go up to him and talk to him. act like nothing ever happened keep talking to him cuz if you dont he'll wont get to know the real you and by talking to him you'll get to see if he likes you more than a friend or just a friend. good luck
2006-06-23 11:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are blowing this WAY WAY WAAAAAYYY out of proportion.
The signing of a year book in know way reflects future prospects with anyone as a friend or as a bf/gf.
2006-06-23 11:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! That is exactly what happened to me! This is what I'm going to do:
Try and wait over the summer and see what happens next school year.
2006-06-23 11:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't ruin it but, it'll take guts to fix it. You need to be direct, up front and clear. Don't act like it never happened, own up to it. Tell him you wish you would've talked to him more and would he like to do something with you and catch up...
2006-06-23 11:29:36 · answer #11 · answered by mymolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋