if youve known someone of the opposite sex for 20 yrs, what r the chances youve messed around before?

Answer 1

probably not as high as most people would think, I have several women freinds, that ive known for years and have never slept with, even though we find each other atractive, sometimes you just dont want to ruin a good relationship with something a common as sex! It really depends on the people involved, i guess, but not everyone is a dog!

Answer 2

Well if they're a sibling, hopefully those chances are nill. A lover you've known for over twenty years, well that's obvious. If I had known you for over twenty years and we never messed around, I'd explode. Literally. When aliens don't get sexual gratification from someone they've known for more than two days, our guts literally burst out of our skin. It's a sad, disgusting display.

I think for most though, once you've become that familiar with someone in a friendship, then you don't want to jeopardize the friendship.

However, twenty years is a long time! Accidents do happen! I'm sure sooner or later, according to probability, the guy will trip, fall on the girl, and his penis will accidentally slip into her vagina. It's just too long of a time for too many possibilities to occur. Someone's bound to get horny!

Answer 3

Hmmm... my longest platonic relship with a man is also 20 years, he's 4 years older than me, and he was engaged to someone in my immediate family. They broke up but we remained friends. I can not imagine having any romantic relations with him, it's really gross to even think about that - he's more like my big brother! He's never, ever, even once touched or saw me in a funny way - and I think I'm a pretty attractive person, but I don't think he sees me that way b/c I'm like her sister. So I think it's possible that you've known of someone of opposite sex for 20 yrs but have never messed around before.

Answer 4

I say that Toecutter is an incredibly shallow and immature
dude.
Personally, I have had many female friends for over 20 years and
I have only messed around with a few of them. I guess that it
depends on your relationship and wether you both have a
physical attraction to each other.

In my case, the numbers would be about 25 percent that I have
messed around with a female friend of 20 years.

Answer 5

well i know this one girl. We've been friends for 20 years, i was at the house aged 4 when she was brought home from being born. So-she's like a little sister and it'd be sick if i was with her. So-we've never messed around and never will. She's a hairdresser and sometimes when i'm having a stressful week she gives me a head massage.

Answer 6

I would say it depends on what type of person you are. Do you believe it to be wrong, or did you just get bored with them, which doesn't make it right. I have known my husband for 27 years and been married to him for 24. Never messed around on him, and I don't believe he has on me. You always find out if they have though.

Answer 7

I'm forty two and my oldest friend I've known for thirty nine years. Not even a kiss between us. He's a great guy but once you've known someone that long it's like they're family and eeww.

Answer 8

all depends on the people, some of my friends that are girls we have messed around alot! lol others, never and would just be weird.

Answer 9

50/50 I've known some guy friends for 15 years and never thought of touching them.........It is possible!!!

Answer 10

I've probably kissed almost all of my female friends passionately, but taken it further with hardly any