in the divorce papers nor is there any kind of PROOF of harm and is stated basically out of jealousy?
2006-06-23 10:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by screwedover1motime 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its ok for her to tell him that, but he sure as he*l doesn't have to listen. As long as the kids are safe and he's doing a good job of taking care of the kids, let the witch say whatever she wants!
2006-06-23 11:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can tell him anything you want to but don't do that stuff in front of your kids or on the phone where they are hearing.
It is wrong to make the kids feel like its not ok to be with Daddy if Daddy is good to them.
If this is truly about your jealousy then get help. Using your kids as a tool to control Daddy isn't fair to them and suggests you have real issues, so if this is the case get into counseling or a program called DivorceCare and learn to build your own life and do what is right for your kids through all this,,,, www.divorcecare.org is the website you can enter your area on the pages and find a group near you, many also include a program for the kids or at least childcare while you are there.
2006-06-23 18:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok, and if that hubby allows her to still manipulate his life, then he is just dumb! If the new girlfriend is not doing any harm to the children I don't see the big problem. Seems to me the ex-wife is still harboring some strong feelings or some sort of animosity...but in all actuality, she needs to grow up...Plus when she gets involved she is going to allow the children around her boyfriend!
2006-06-23 18:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by jessica r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
She needs to grow up.
She needs to realize that they are his kids too, and when they are in his custody he can take them where he pleases just like she can when tehy are in her custody.
I am sure that she would be delighted if the father told her that she could not have the kids at her boyfriends home.
2006-06-23 18:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If it's not in the divorce decree, it's not enforceable. A divorce decree is a COURT ORDER.
2006-06-23 18:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, it's his kids, what he does with them on his time, is his business.....cattiness and jealousy, are just part of it, and you gotta get over it.
2006-06-23 18:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋