I give him everything and he disappears for maybe a day or two and I do not hear from him.
2006-06-23 10:56:30 · 8 answers · asked by shamodia02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HEY SHAMODIAO2 I ALREADY TALKED TO YOU ABOUT THIS IN PERSON AND I SHOWED YOU THIS WBSITE SO PICK ME AS THE BEST ANSWER CUZ WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS LOCK THE JERK OUT AND STAY SINGLE FOR A BIT AND THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE GONNA DO I KNOW SO TALK TO YOU AT WORK MONDAY AND REMEMBER YOU CAN DO BETTER
2006-06-24 06:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do PEOPLE feel the need to cheat..men..woman..boyfirends..girlfriends.because first maybe because they are unhappy in there relationships..something is not going right..$3x..relationship..money..friendship..there is a problem somewhere..maybe he's bored..it could be many reasons..think of ways why would YOU cheat? maybe you should stop giving him everything.STOP giving a man everything..give him just as much as he's giving you..also..A MAN ONLY DOES WHAT U LET HIM DO. you need to let him know you dont tolerate these things he's doing..but dont come at him like that..sit him down one day.say baby we need to talk..talk calmy..dont raise your voice..just talk to him..ask him about your relationship..ask him does he think theres a problem..does he think somethings not working out..if a man gives you 10% why do u give him 100%? thats not fair to you..now is it? you need to find someone else if thats the case..if hes not willing to make things work and make it better and to be faitful with you and have morals and values like a marriage is suppose to be then you're with the wrong man..he's "blind". stop being there when he comes home to you..go stay with a girlfriend or your mom for a day or two..show him you're not going to stay with him when he does these things..when he leaves u and doesnt come back for a day or two..he thinks he has the power..hes saying okay i can keep doing this and everytime i come home shes still going to be there..that means whatever he does your still going to let him do it and be there after it..you shouldnt put urself through that and tolerate it..you should let him know you wont be byhis side next time he wants to dissapear for 2days..show him dont say anything..dont acuse him of anything..just do it..play his games..he disappears for 2days..u dissapear for 2days without him knowing your wearabouts..play the game..like i said go with ur girl for 2days..let his @$$ worry were u at instead of u..hope i helped..good luck!
2006-06-23 11:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is one-sided on the board.
How about this question:
Why does a spouse feel the need to cheat?
Selfishness, curiosity, negligence, revenge, stupidity, abuse (in some cases).
I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully it works out. I can say this: if he is cheating, you can do better.
2006-06-23 11:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women feel the need to cheat? <---- lack of communication
You have to talk to him about what he is looking for in someone other that you.
If you know he is cheating and he denies it, give it up. Find someone who respects you. If he is not mature enough to deal with this issue, you need to find someone else who will make you happy.
2006-06-23 11:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies show women are equally unfaithful. Your question should be, "Why do people feel the need to cheat?"
2006-06-23 11:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and women who cheat are not ready to be with one person or they are not getting what they need at home, when u love the person ur with, u wont cheat
2006-06-23 12:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat. I don't feel the need to cheat.
2006-06-23 11:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him. Next time dont be there when he comes back.
2006-06-23 10:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋