What do u think?

Question

Scenario Question-Why do u some people in the world forget/ignore person who has helped/been there for them as soon as they get what they want/their work is done?

Answer 1

Its one of those mysteries of the world
It depends on person to person & it has definite groups
people who use manipulate get what they want go away
people who use get what they want go away come back again try to use for something they want again
people who use get what they want ignore

Answer 2

Once some people get what they want they are so focused on the fact that they got their way that they forget who was there through out the hard times. I honestly don't think people do this intentionally, I think some people are more aware of this than other. We have all done it as some time or another. It is the people that do this habitually that you need to watch out for.

Answer 3

There is a Theory that people come into our lives for various reasons: Basicly there is a need in our lives and they help us complete that task and then....that is it.. over with... sometimes this task may be a impromt meeting, help with a flat tire etc..., others may last a week, possibly temp co-workers, some are relationships that last for months, years and other last a life time as siblings and mate.

The thought is the relationship was to serve a purpose and once that purpose is over....it's over.. regardless if it was an hour or a life time.

Answer 4

Cause a lot of people are selfish. I've helped many people before and in a matter of years i'm just trash.

Just like yesterday when I was playing warcraft and my close friend insulted my mom and sis. Wow was I pissed. And I helped him so much and bearly ask him for anything and this is how I get repaid?

Well i'm glad to know I won't be helping those kinds of people again... so well just ignore them... when they neeed help again ignore them cause they will still treat you like dirt and will never stop treating you like dirt.

Answer 5

I wish I knew the answer to that myself. I think some people take others for granted and are finished with them when their needs are taken care of. Selfish. I guess unfortunately people do not take feelings into consideration. Good luck and God bless

Answer 6

The Focus in there Mind.
They see the goal and not those who get then to it.
There goal was not to be indebted to anyone, as they got there on there own.
If good people were screw ups, you would not be asking this.
Your friends will Love you, but you must risk and help more than just your friends. If you risk Loving someone and helping you risk some discomfort.

Answer 7

Those people use others for their own purpose and once that purpose is served/done there is no more need for that person. They are forgotten because they no longer serve any meaning to the other.

Answer 8

My opinions are :1st) they maybe taking others 4 granted. 2) they belongs 2 the selfish group. 3) they are self centred ppl. Lastly 2 sump this up: sometimes, we must forgives & forgets & we should NOT acts like dem, OR else we 2 will soon be, like just dem, lol:)) Just DON judge others OR ya may b judge in de measure of ya own cup or judgements. This wat me gotto tells ya. Forgives dem n ya will b blessed!! May GOD Bless Ya!!

Answer 9

selfish, I had that prob with a girl friend, I helped her when she had an affair and needed to talk... now she won't return call, people told me because she is ashamed, I think so, but what a ******. don't get upset, forget those selfish b.ustard, find new friends.

Answer 10

Sounds like the person is being selfish for one. If this person makes you feel bad for you helping them. Say something then.