I've been feeling like nobody cares bout me anymore. my mom and ppl in my family keep calling me useless and making me feel bad. plus, my so called friends dont even hang out with me or talk to me anymore. and one of my best friends...well, its almost like hes ignoring me right now cuz like if he sees me he tries to run somewhere else. and it hurts wen my friends do this cuz it makes me feel like im not even worth their friendship.
any advice?
2006-06-23 10:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by michelleee♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow! (she whispers)
You are going through hard times right now! Do you know (believe) in God? If you do.. turn to him, he will always be there and protect you.
If you don't, I am sry for you, but I don't have anything against you.
It is especially hard if you can't turn to your family right now. I would talk to a school councelor. This may seem wierd or intimidating, but you might actually feel better. If you ever need to talk to someone, you can email me at dancelvr_dance@yahoo.com
Because I know how it feels... I am going through some crap myself and I am lucky that I have a few family members to turn to, and I am here to listen to ya if you need some more advice.
the least you can do is smile, and DON'T GIVE UP!!
2006-06-23 10:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by love♥live♥dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the family to stop referring to you as useless. It's mean spirited and abusive. Also, get yourself screened for depression. Could you be focusing so much on negative things that your alleged friends are tired of being dragged down by it. Talk to a clergy in your church or a rabbi. Meanwhile, focus on join some groups that shares the same common interests as yours or volunteer for something. Good luck, dear.
2006-06-23 10:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wanna ask your family why they call you so. You should not think that you are stupid. Remember you became what other people tell you only if you believe them. Ask your friends too why they are evading you and make new friends. And if there is no one God is there to be with you
2006-06-23 11:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by ωнєη уσυ ѕмιℓє уσυ мαкє мє ѕмιℓє 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, your not useless your a person. i feel so bad for you.sit down and have a talk with your mom and tell her how you are feeling and if she dosent want to listen.than there is something wrong with her , seek to talk to someone else. i wish the best for you.
2006-06-23 10:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are your true friends they will be there for you no matter what. alot of people think they have alot of friends until one day they relay need help or just someone to talk to and their list gets smaller and smaller. choose your friends wisely. and sometimes it seams like parents don't care or don't love you but you will see one day they do care so keep your chin up don't let anyone keep you down your better than that
2006-06-23 10:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by shannon8869 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please be patient with yourself. we all have good and bad feelings..and one thing about feelings, is that THEY PASS...if you have an issue going on in your life, please go see a therapist to talk things over with..there's nothing wrong with expressing yourself to someone. i hope things work out for you -- i know they will...good luck
2006-06-23 10:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋