2006-06-23 10:07:40 · 16 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Porn can affect a relationship if one of the people are uncomfortable with it. You just have to talk to your partner about it and find out where he/she stands with the porn. If your partner thinks its bothersome then do the right thing and ditch it.
2006-06-23 10:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think porn can be harmful to a relationship if it is used often.It has been my experience that I am expected to perform and look like the porn stars.I am very uninhibited,and sexual,but most of the men I have dated had a hard time distinguishing reality from fantasy.I mean I would do almost anything to please sexually.As long as it didn't involve other females,children,animals,deceased people,and being called degrading names during sex.Now don't get me wrong,I like raunchy sex,but that doesn't include disgusting name calling.I mean how am I supposed to feel loved when I am being called such terrible things?I don't understand women that allow this.But...to each it's own..If porn is used too often in a relationship it might cause problems later.Too much of anything can be bad.Just hope that you KNOW your fiance' so well that the use of porn and the perception of the women in it won't cause him to look or feel differently about you.
2006-06-23 17:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can affect a relationship on different levels. It can bring excitement into the bedroom if both parties are open to it or it can cause a lot of problems if one partner gets insulted by porn or the other partner can't stop looking at porn and respect the other's wishes. It all depends on the people. It can be a good thing or a bad thing.
2006-06-23 17:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any well-adjusted adult enjoys porn to some degree, it shouldn't be an issue between two people who have an honest and open relationship. Me and my girlfriend watch porn together, but some of the stuff I like isn't for her, and some of her stuff (plotlines... costumes... blah blah blah...) is just too boring for me.
If you're relationship is on solid ground, porn shouldn't be an issue.
2006-06-23 17:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Argon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It affects a relationship period.The other person will feel very insecure because they figure if the other person has to look at porn they are not satisfiying are good enough for them,I don't know about new relationships but I think it definitly ruins love.Even if the other person "doesn't mind" it will bother them or affect them in some way.To me that is cheating and its not something Im comfortable w/ my boyfriend doing..Its just like cheating only not in your face.I think if your in love w/ somebody u definitley don't need that your boy-friend or girl-friend should be enough.And its not double standard its not just guys who do it.Either way its no good for a person's mind because it will affect their outloook on sex and will ruin relationships.
2006-06-23 20:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends how the porn is being used, how often and how out in the open it is. Are you sharing your pornographic experiences with your fiance? Are you participating alone but with her knowledge? Are you participating without her knowledge? Are you so over-porned that you can only get off to airbrushed girls in a magazine? You really haven't given enough info.
2006-06-23 17:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think so. It all depends on the persons point of view. It should actually enhance their relation ship. It gives you something to look up to in the future. If it does affect your relationship maybe your partner doesn't have quite an open mind. Talk about it first before you do anything.
2006-06-23 17:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by hrnndzmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will affect the relationship, the porn is being looked at as something the person wants, "lust" after, if the person was so in love to get married, they shouldnt need porn, unless they both enjoy it.......but i believe that is rare anyway.
2006-06-23 17:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like it or not any person that says they don't look at other people are probably hipocrits and definitly liars. It shouldn't effect your relationship if you both are open and honest and one or the other is not offended by it.
2006-06-23 17:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by bones54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope not. Pretty weak to let good old fashion porn be a problem.
2006-06-23 17:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Alibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋