My boyfriend and i just got back together and he said he would change because he loves me alot but he's making plans to move to Virgina for college and it makes me feel like he has a limited time for this relationship. I really love him and don't want to be a bother and nag. But this is really big issue to me I want to be in his future.
2006-06-23 09:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Jassimine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's a reason you broke up in the first place. If he claimed he would change, but did not, then there's your answer. He is who he is and you have to accept that or move on. If he's moving away, and you are going to be left behind, the chances the relationship will last long are quite slim (sorry for the bad news, but that is reality). It appears your futures are taking you in different directions. Probably the best scenario now is to put your relationship in "friendship" mode. That way you can both live your lives while you are apart, and if somewhere down the road you want to try romance again you can...but it'll bring less heartache especially for you, being left behind and wondering what he's doing and why he doesn't call.
2006-06-23 09:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be good to spend some time apart while you guys are away from each other.
You both could see other people and be friends when you meet again.
There's alot of fish in the sea, you both should get a taste.
2006-06-23 09:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sexual chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody has to compromise. I wouldn't ask him to give up college for me, if he wants to make something good of his life, then just allow him to. You will both be happy finanancially in the end. Long distance relationship is hard, but it can work.
2006-06-23 09:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by slimchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him to change. That was really unfair to ask in the first place. Just let him go and find someone else who you can be happy with.
2006-06-23 09:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he change? he's going to college there isn't much you can do about it, just realize its one of the problems with being your age and that will pass, you'll get older.
2006-06-23 09:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't change -- at least not in a time frame that you decide. Say "good-bye" and walk away.
2006-06-23 09:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Randall K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why say anything? He is not going to change one iota, and you know it. If you are unhappy as he is, then move on...simple, isn't it?
2006-06-23 09:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants you to be in his future he'll tell you and if he doesnt then its because someone better is gonna come along
2006-06-23 09:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its about time
2006-06-23 09:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just what you told us! He might understand
2006-06-23 09:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋