Is marriage a waste of time and money?

Question

More and more people r getting divorce, so can you please give me reasons as to why i should marry in the future

Answer 1

marriage is hard work and you have to work together to make it a good marriage you are going to have up and downs and good times and bad times. but there is always more good times then bad you just got to work at it and be completely honest with each other and grow together not apart.

Answer 2

Marriage is only a waste of time if you are not willing to work at it. Divorce is high because people figure they have a way out.. My sister who has 7 kids (NOT on welfare) and her husband have been married for 13 years and even though it has been hard and even though they are not rich...My parents have been married for over 30 years and I have been married for 3. It's hard, yes but it is the best thing I have ever done. Sometimes I don't like my husband and sometimes he doesn't like me but we took this commitment seriously and will stick it out.
Marriage won't last if you go into it thinking if it gets rough you have a way out. give 100%

Answer 3

There is only one person who knows that answer and that is you. I can speak from a statistical point of you but nobody can decide that for you. Marriage is easy it's keeping the whole thing going - you can write your signature on a piece of paper smile for the camera have all people that you love around you but thats nowhere near what its all about.
If you truely love someone and could not bear the thought of being without them, can give and take 50/50 work hard and give it 100% all the time then marriage is not a waste of time

Answer 4

People are divorcing, but it doesn't dictate that you will too. If you truly mean your vows, it doesn't matter if everyone else on the planet suddenly divorced.

Marriage is like owning a home. You are going to take care of a home if you own it...more than if you just "rent" it. With a good marriage, you know that you have someone in your corner every second of every day. Someone that knows the good, the bad and the ugly and is still bonded to you in a way that no other can.

Answer 5

the number of co habiting couples who split up is one in two (or 50% if you prefer) the number of marriages that end in divorce is one in three (thats 33%) which shows that it is not just a piece of paper. Statistics also show that married people are healthier, wealthier and more successful. The offspring of married couples tend to do better at school, go on to uni and generally are happier than their co habiting equivalents who are more likely to end up in broken families themselves. Does that help? If in any doubt my answer is a definative no, weddings don't have to be expensive and it should be for the rest of your life, so impossible to be time wasted.

Answer 6

marriage is a waste of time and money, its just a piece of paper and an excuse to have a party.. i did it once, am now divorced.. so in the future, dont get married, just throw a big party for your family and friends.....

Answer 7

Hi marriage is just a pic, of papper i have been with the same for going on 20 years now and we are not marriage we have talk about it and we both think its just a waste of money but i think if you can live with some one so long why not get marriage it cant hourt can it.

Answer 8

Only you can answer your question and you can do it easily. Just sit back and relax then think of what you want your life to be like and whether you want to share it with someone.

Not all marriages work for various reasons but any and all marriages there is always work and compromize. Personally, I like the idea of being with someone when I am old and can't do much but sit around.

Answer 9

no not really but if u truly love this person then go 4 it about 85% waste money caz as SOON as they get married somethin goes wrong i thinnk wen they don't get married it'll b better off workin in that relationship 15% that means they r jus madly on lov wit that person their wit if u get married in the future congrats i hope yo relationship works out like those 15% of other people

Answer 10

Marriage is a great union if shared with the right person. It is definitely not a waste of time or money.

Answer 11

Cannot give you one...at this time. I prefer the "open door policy" where each day, both parties must work on the relationship to keep the other from walking out the door...that keeps ya' on your toes. BUT, when children enter the scene, the picture changes. Children's rights and well being are protected more by the parent's marrage than by any other means.