is it healthy and normal to look at other men in a sexual way
2006-06-23 09:23:26 · 16 answers · asked by JACAAA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a tough one. I'm a happily married guy, and living in NYC, I see a lot of attractive women. Yes, we shouldn't do this, but as long as we do not lust after them, we are OK.
2006-06-23 09:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I joke all the time about having "crushes" on other people... doesn't mean either of us ever intend to actually do anything. I think it's less healthy to suppress those feelings. Eventually, that dam will burst!
2006-06-23 16:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by browneyedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage, contrary to popular belief does not numb your senses, nor does it suppress an urge to look at other people. It is quite normal. Healthy? I'm not sure.
2006-06-23 16:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not only healthy and normal, it is common as dirt. I WOULD watch out about that "Looking"... I would not want anyone else to know what I were doing if I were you.
2006-06-23 16:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put a Man or a Woman on a diet, but you can't keep them from looking at the menu!
2006-06-23 16:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Stan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it part of life i'm sure you husband looks at females in a sexual way. just don't act on it.
2006-06-23 20:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u ask urself if u think its right for ur husband to look at other women in a sexual way?
2006-06-23 17:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Zwerg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is like my husband says, you can look at all the cars you want as long as you don't try to drive them!
2006-06-23 16:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To reverse the question ...are you happily married ? just curious
2006-06-23 16:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it means that there is something severely lacking in your marriage. It may also give your spouse inferiority complex, would you like your spouse to do the same?
2006-06-23 16:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋