this happened when i was 11 years old by my sisters father!!
2006-06-23 08:39:54 · 18 answers · asked by playgurl pooh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The person who answered just get over it has never been through it. There are lots of good web sites that you get talk through your feelings/ anger and everthing. You don't even have to let people know who your are. I do know that you can't do it alone. It is so hard when the people we are suppose to trust betray that trust. Remember that it is them who have a problem not you. Therapy is good but also costly, and sometimes it is better to talk to people who have been through it that is why i suggest the interent sites. Good Luck and most of all believe in yourself.
2006-06-23 08:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. If your in school talk to a counselor, call a hot line, like runaway hot line. Will your mother believe you.
Try calling a local hospital and ask for counseling services. they should have information on where you can go .
You've got to get it out. I lived with this situation for 11 years and didn't start to feel better until I was able to talk about it. and I couldn't talk to my family. I was 20 before I could actually say anything and I finally spoke to a second cousin.
Please keep looking for help. The faster you do the faster you can heal.
2006-06-23 08:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by lajefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek counseling. At your school, church or local community center. I would consider pressing charges if not too much time has passed. If you don''t want the hassle, definitely open up to someone close to help put this past you. Unless of course you enjoyed it. Then just let it go and move on with your life.
2006-06-23 08:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was molested when I was in the 2nd grade by two brothers, in the parking lot at school, while everyone else was at recess. Would you believe, I carried that around with me for almost 30 years. You've got to find someone to talk to or it will eat you alive. You can talk to me....
2006-06-23 08:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by relos2angels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. I will pray for you today.
If you can't talk to your mother about this, consider a religious leader, or a teacher, or a counselor at school. You can always go to the cops - what happened to you was a crime and the man who did it ought to be punished and put away where he can't hurt any more little girls.
God bless you.
2006-06-23 08:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search Internet for "VGT". It is international, so you may have to pick your country. It will give you access to support organisations who you can talk to or, if you want, will enable you to report it.
Good luck, there are people out there who will listen.
I have put the link below.
2006-06-23 08:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie go to authorities and tell them what he did to you and they will get you the correct contacts for you to start talking to someone and helping you through this tough time. OK, just always remember you did nothing wrong and he NEEDS to pay for what he did to you, and hopefully with you turning him in he can't hurt any other Innocent girls like you...OK, GOOD LUCK ! ! !
2006-06-23 08:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot more than to 'get over it' you nogg. First things first is not too late to report it. Secondly, talk with a therapist -- it helps, I know.
2006-06-23 08:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by ~Mother Of Angels~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A social group could help
2006-06-23 08:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cherry09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would report it and talk to a counselor.
2006-06-23 08:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by SiLLy-mE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋