i do every thing for my husband in the bed, I was wondering if theres any more sexual secrets i havent tried so i can do it for him. nothing is nasty to me so feel free to say anything.
2006-06-23 08:28:09 · 39 answers · asked by skdfjasl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
put on a strap on and make him your b i t c h. tell him he belongs to you and that is that. tie him to the bed first so he cant get away.
2006-06-23 08:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by dgr0919 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Your husband doesn't want to do those things with you, that's why he goes after women that are, shall we say, below your station, but not his. He has a number of serious issues that you appear to be completely unaware of that cause him to engage in this behavior. The bottom line is that he seeks out women who he thinks he deserves, because you're too good for him. He's hoping you'll figure this out and leave him, otherwise he'd at least try to keep his extracurricular activities secret from you, rather than rubbing your nose in them.
If despite all of his outrageous conduct you still not only want to stay with him, but want to try to satisfy him sexually, I think you should let him pee on you. Since he's already figuratively done that, you may as well let him do it literally, too. That way, he'll realize that you're even cheaper and trashier than his girlfriends are, and maybe he'll appreciate you more. But that may not be kinky enough. He might want to give you a Cleveland Steamer, a Dirty Sanchez, or something that those women won't even consider letting him do. If you really are considering lowering yourself to their level so that you can get your husband to honor his vows, you may as well do it right and leave no doubt that you're lower than they are.
Of course, by then, he'll probably decide to leave you because you're a cheap, trashy sl**.
Save your energy and just ditch this loser NOW!
2006-06-23 08:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's cheating on you and going to strip clubs there isn't much of anything that is going to change his behavior. The fact that you go out of your way to please him sexually only establishes the fact that he's having his cake and eating it too.
If you want him to stop cheating (which he might not do) you need to talk to him about how you feel. No wife should have to put up with a cheating hubby - if he wanted to have tons of women why did he even bother taking marriage vows?
Talk to him, be firm, and don't take his cheating bulsh*t anymore! You should try to get into marriage counseling too - it will help a ton.
2006-06-23 08:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are obviously some problems with this relationship because you dont trust him at all and no woman deserves to be cheated on.
On another note...does he go to strip clubs alot or wants to go? Have you ever gone with him? I always hated it if my bf ever even thought about going but then one time I went and I LOVED it. I realized it was nothing like what I expected. The girls are always really sweet to women that come in and totally respectful of you and your man. Plus its kinda fun and may help you out in the bedroom!!
2006-06-23 08:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by breeokc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find his favorite strip club and fill out an application for a job and when he comes in to visit you can approach him and maybe give him a 10% discount for a lap dance. Benefits are your money stays in the family and you can put it back in the bank, you get to see your husband even when he does the strip club, and think of all the money you could make on the side. All pretty good and unarguable reasons don't you think.
2006-06-23 08:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by andyman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor a dump this chump. If he can't respect your relationship and he cheats on you...leave! With every other woman he sleeps with, he risks bringing home a disease which can kill you. What would happen if he impregnated one of these women he sleeps with? Would the woman want child support? Would everyone in the neighborhood find out? How would that make you feel? Have some respect for yourself and walk out on this guy. I almost wrote "walk out on this man", but he is not a man.
2006-06-23 09:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like he has the best of all worlds. If he is cheating on you and you still want him, go to counseling first. He needs to realize that the risk is too great if he is cheating and going to strip clubs. Sometimes hearing it from a stranger that he may loose his wife will hit home a little better. If you had balls, he has them scrunched in his hands, maybe you should be crunching his.
2006-06-23 08:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing u do will stop him from cheating. u could be the best lover, the best person in the world, but if he wants to step out he will. it has nothin to do with your sexual favors but a greedy need for all women to want him. if u "do everything" for him in bed i'm pretty sure a few more tricks wont help. maybe u should go to counseling if u want to try to save this relationship. i know it might be hard to admit but it may just be a lost cost.
2006-06-23 08:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by keldog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already doing everthing you can think of then whats left but communication? Try to find out why he is cheating and going to strip clubs. That's whats really bothering you. Good luck and hang in there. My on again off again man cheats I think that most do. And not to be mean but you either have to deal with it or leave his stankin a**!
2006-06-23 08:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ask him what excites him about going to the strip club, then use what he tells you to your advantage, and one night when he comes home give him what he wants from the clubs it is sure to work, as far as cheating i don't know what to tell you, it may just be the excitement of it, then if that is the case then set up a night when you and him go out together but at different times, and you meet him there and proceed to pick him up in a lil sexy number that i am sure you have in your closet somewhere.
2006-06-23 08:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the CORRECT answer. Instead of wondering what more you can do to keep him... you need to ask yourself "Why am I looking at this like I'm the one with the deficiency here?". It's not YOU that needs to change; it's HIM. He's the one who's cheating and whoring around... why are you so desperate to change for him? My advice...either lay out the ultimatum that he stops the activity or you are gone, or, better yet, just leave. You can do better.
2006-06-23 08:40:33 · answer #11 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋