is it possible for a guy and a girl who are very attracted to each other, but both in other relationships, we've even had sex recently,
but is it possible for us to just stay friends? even though we've already expressed our feelings?
2006-06-23 08:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by Duality4:20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im the guy! i just got divorced, she's married. we were each others first loves 7-8 years ago. now we hang out, and her husband is my friend, but we've decided to just be friends right now. but everytime we get close, the whole situation changes. so should i just cut of the friendship completely or try and stick it out?
2006-06-23 08:37:42 · update #1
Yes, and I am telling you this from experience!!! As long as you both keep open minds about everything and listen to each other so "feelings" don't get too intense. If neither of you freak out. FWBennies aok
2006-06-23 08:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I am in a similar situation. I actually know his girlfriend. He is my best friend. We broke up in March 2006 and I love him very much. We have had sex and we express our love for each other but in the end, we are still "Just Friends". The thing is, he has moved on but I wait with a little bit of hope that one day, we may get back together but I dont know if that will ever happen or not. :)
I did tell him though that if I can't have him as my man, I will have him as a friend. I'd rather be his friend than not to have him in my life at all.
2006-06-23 15:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt it. There's going to be too much awkwardness between you to maintain a platonic friendship. You know that if you were ever stuck in an empty house together, you'd want to get physical again.
I'd suggest ending these other relationships simultaneously and giving it a real try, if you both are seriously attracted to each other. You're not doing these other people any favors anyway. You've both cheated. Why keep the soap opera going?
2006-06-23 15:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this, if you were to tell the person you're in a relationship with that you had sex with someone else, do you think he would say "okay, you can keep being friends wtih him"?
So since you already betrayed the guy royally, I would at the very least cut off ties with the guy or do your guy a favor and leave the relationship.
2006-06-23 15:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. INFEDELITY! Yikes... Break up with your signifigant other if your bangin' someone else... That aint cool unless you are doing a 4-some.. Now that would be good and fair to all parties involved, not only are you decieving your partner, but they are decieving theres as well. How would you like that? HMMMMM..
2006-06-23 15:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have seen each other naked! Neither of you have what you want in your current realtionships or you wouldnt have let this happen. You both need to get out and get together.
2006-06-23 15:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think about putting things back the way they were. It cannot happen. Deal with the way it is.
2006-06-23 15:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Collin R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's possible, but only if you both want the same thing. when one of you wants something different, the problems will follow.
2006-06-23 15:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already had sex; doubtful if you can pull it back a notch. If you can; hats off to you!
2006-06-23 15:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you can just stay friends
2006-06-23 15:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ready4Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋