getting married but she gets mad easily?

Question

i paying for alot of the stuff im workin 2 jobs and i still treat her like a queen she doens;t cook and doesn't iron and ihelpe her around cleaning the room some cooking and other chores

Answer 1

thats not fair you should reevaluate if you want to get married to this person. youre not even married yet and her true side is showing.

Answer 2

Why do you feel the need to get married? There is NOTHING wrong with saying "you know what, i'm not ready". I don't care if the wedding is in an hour. It doesn't matter.

You clearly have issues and I understand them. It doesn't sound like she respects you at all. if you're working TWO JOBS, she should be polishing your shoes, cooking, ironing, cleaning just because she loves you and it's her way of being supportive. Now, you have set a precedant and you've said "it's okay to be lazy and disrespectful, I'll still marry you". Don't you deserve to be with a partner not a leach? You may be in a bit of denial here and I understand. It's difficult. Just think things through a bit. it's NOT the end of the world if you choose to chill.

Answer 3

Ohhhh dont do it. I worked with a man whose wife was the same way. He could not go to his H.S. reunion due to her jealousy. She would call him at work every hour and ask where the clean clothes were. He would work full time then go home and vacuum, do laundry, fold and put it away, cook, clean, and he watched the kids. She was definitely a princess. It will only get worse. I really used to feel bad for him but he let her walk all over him. There has to be a balance. My husband and I split things down the middle financially and also do the same with housework.

Answer 4

it could be frustration from not knowing how to do those things properly, or it could be that she just doesn't like to do them.

Give and take man. create opportunities for learning and doing things together. Whatever you do, try not to make it stressful --no one likes to be put down, and most people have an adverse reaction to it.


My wife is similar, but I do what I can and we work together. She never had to do that stuff when she was younger and I did. those are the differences of being an older child and marrying a younger or only child. Good luck. and have fun.

Oh yeah.....we get along great. but we're not fighters

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you are asking for a reason not to get married. Those are issuses you need to think about before you get married. If she isn't willing to do those things for you, and then you get married expecting her to them you might be disappointed at the end result. Should she contribute yes of course she should, but if you know she isn't going and you want her too you could end up with a divorce. I would think about it long and hard before you make that big of a commitment

Answer 6

WARNING!!! Don't marry that woman! Marriage is supposed to be to the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with and this woman is NOT displaying the qualities she should in order to make a loving marriage last longer than 14 weeks.

Answer 7

you need to think whether someone getting mad easy is a trait that you want in a life mate and if not then try to get her to seek some counseling so she can know why she does this and hopefully it can be improved and make the relationship stonger once she gets this resolved and calms down a bit...

Answer 8

If she gets mad easily now wait until your married. You need to really rethink this decision. Getting married for the sake of getting married can only end in ruin. Ruin I tell you!!

Answer 9

You have to wiegh how badly you want her..if your really in love than you can work threw this.. communication about what you expect of wife.. alot of guys dont relize what they expect married life to be like.. and women dont always know thats what your wanting.

Answer 10

i think that you to need to sit down and express you guys feelings, cause whats the use to have a relationship if you can't talk to each other