2006-06-23 08:10:45 · 34 answers · asked by Jesse D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Relax, she is probably nervous.
2006-06-23 08:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd definitely say she's stressed from the wedding. There are so many things to think about, and I'm not just talking about party favors and flowers. It's family and guests...it's the beginning of your life together. It's just everything rolled up into a big eggroll and then some, including things away from the wedding. I think you two should take some time off to relax and just think about eachother for a bit and get away from the stress.
2006-06-23 08:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by pizzagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably the stress. I turned into a raving shrew about a month or two before my wedding! lol...even I was horrified at how mean I got! If you and your wife have a good sense of humour, I'd buy last season's dvd "Bridezillas" (a t.v. show about brides gone mad) and watch it together! It will be good for her because maybe she'll take the hint that she is being a little much and it will be good for you to realize that no matter how bad your wife gets, there are women out there who are a whole lot worse!
Good luck and congratulations!
2006-06-23 08:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the one doing the "planning", then she is having to do a 1000 and 1 things at one time.
Its best to have a wedding planner for the big shingdings anymore. They take the hassles away from your bride to be and it makes for an easier transition to marriage.
Brides get antsy when its time for the "big day", because they have sooo many reservations about this and that, and if they can live up to "your expectations" for the rest of her life...
Just be understanding, and love her more...
Also, get some counceling, BEFORE you get married, to make sure you work out ALL the loose ends, before its all finalized.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-23 08:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is most likely stressed with planning the wedding. Sit her down and tell her how wonderful she is and tell her she is doing a good job and that you appreciate all her hard work. Maybe offer to take her out for a nice diner to get away from all the stress. Just don't worry, she will be back to her old self the day after her wedding.
2006-06-23 08:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of the way. She is trying to plan every thing. If she asks for help get right on it. occasionally ask her what she need you to do. take her to a nice dinner. She might be on a crash diet (as many brides do) to fit in to the perfect dress, so the dinner thing may not work. I'm sorry your marrying a Bridezilla she will be back to normal after the wedding.
2006-06-23 08:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by caitie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda hard to say, right now is a stressful and exciting time for the both of you. Try to be a little more understanding and listen to what she has to say, she needs your input also in the plans of the wedding, she doesn't want to feel like she starting her life with you alone on your important day
2006-06-23 08:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by whatd4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be wedding jitters. I know some women that go psycho before the wedding..they can't help it. Try to take her out for a relaxing night somewhere just to get away..or do something to rekindle the flame like reminding her of something you two shared while dating, or a song of yours, get her a sappy card, etc...little things like that can melt her heart, take it from me. Good luck :-)
2006-06-23 08:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Swaygirl27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just stress related to the wedding. I'd bring it up at premarital counseling. If you've already finished premarital counseling, just call the counselor up and ask if you can schedule an extra session or get advice pro bono.
2006-06-23 08:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by mom2babycolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is stress from planning the wedding, you could get more involved and be supportive of her decisions, but she probably wants your imput..., if that is not it, umm, i would reconsider the marriage or go to premarital counseling, cause this could be a huge red flag.
2006-06-23 08:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by bonzasheila_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is nervous. You should be too. Marriage is a big thing. Maybe the whold planning the wedding and making sure everything is perfect is stressing her out. Just be there for her.
2006-06-23 08:14:09 · answer #11 · answered by babegirll23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋