i have been married 8 years and one of my old friends wanted to get together before i got married but i never did. now i think about him alot. should i call him or should i just let it go?
2006-06-23 08:07:01 · 21 answers · asked by spicy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let's see...You have been married for 8 years...HELL NO don't call him. How would you feel if your husband went and did the same thing?
2006-06-23 08:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. This may sacrifice your marriage. Unless you can't handle the problems in your marriage, then get a divorce and call your friend. If you do call him you are letting temptation in and its a hard thing to fight. You just may do something with him that you'll regret for the rest of your life.
2006-06-23 15:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it GO!!
Why jeopardise a marriage for a fling? And, even if nothing happens, your hubby will wonder why your seeing "old friends" that happened before you two were together....
Its best to not start something if you think your going to be romantically inclined already...
(In your mind you are already planning, so, drop it now and avoid the hassles)...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-23 15:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! and think why you're considering this possibility... Are you happy with your husband? Why are you thinking this much of your old friend? Is there something missing in your marriage?
Marriage needs to be reinvented once in a while... Do it! And forget your old friend...
2006-06-23 15:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by MB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your husband and tell him that you want to play around with his blessing. Hell, ask him to come along. why not have both? People do it all the time. They're called Swingers.
If that's not an option. Let it go. It's not worth it.
2006-06-23 15:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by TimHayes69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, why in the world are you even asking? If you love your husband, you need to let it go! - You made the right decision not to cheat then, don't screw up now.
If you don't love your husband, for God's sake, don't cheat - end the marriage first, then move on with your life!
2006-06-23 15:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted him, you would have been with him instead of your husband 8 years ago- LET IT GO!
2006-06-23 15:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dawnette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go it is normal to think about those from your past! Don't mess up your marriage for an ex! He is an ex for a reason, don't forget that!
2006-06-23 15:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sabrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. You are always going to wonder what might have happened, no matter what you do. So if you love your husband, then forget about this other guy.
2006-06-23 15:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by bemassey2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself how you would feel if your spouse posed the question to you. would you tell him to call the old flame?
committing to a marriage means accepting that it will entail certain sacrifices, many of them revolving around never getting answers to those what ifs. you need to decide whether or not you are really able to live with that.
2006-06-23 15:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by m0ckeryj0nes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋