I have several groups of friends, some who never meet each other. My long time, mostly straight, friends are social drinkers, partiers, and good for a fun time. However, some things you just don't talk about. My work friends are another story. I was in the men's room, and a desk neighbor came in, and we talked about masturbation frequency and anal sex. We talk freely about him performing oral on his wife, and my going down on my b/f.
It's not like he's breaching any confidence. I've dined with them after work, and she's just as open about sex. I love talking like this. I'm sick of saying something and getting the evil eye for bring up something as natural as nudism, or masturbation, or sex, or even frank talk about using the bathroom, rather than heming and hawing to find the nice way to say something. If I have IBS, and you ask how I feel, I want to tell you (not show you)
What do you think?
2006-06-23 07:54:30 · 5 answers · asked by tkdeity 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
there is a time and place for polite conversation, but i would hate for it to be the only kind of conversation around... it's like table manners. when i have "company" or am out at a restaurant, i can be as clean and polished as the queen of england, but at home with my family just watch me dig through bones and get a face full of gravy or sauce.
2006-06-23 08:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is healthy to have conversations like this as long as it is the right place and time. One such conversation happened to me in an office of college professors in which I worked. The question going around the office was whether or not you shaved your private area. They, having many many years on me, could not see the point in shaving your area. It was a different kind of conversation but boy we had a good time with it.
2006-06-23 08:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is good but sometimes it is not the time or place for certain conversations. But be yourself it takes all kinds. Don't take this wrong.
2006-06-23 07:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i am who i am i talk to be polite and i also can reverse my politeness at anytime depends who i am talking with!
2006-06-23 08:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know what to say, but I feel ya.
2006-06-23 07:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋